An Open Letter to Robert F. Kennedy Jr., Who Thinks My Daughter Is a Tragedy

Our 11th most-read article of 2025. - - -Dear Mr. RFK Jr., (The “dear” is tradition. Don’t mistake it for affection.) You said autistic children a...

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@mwl @lennybacon

“Autism doesn’t destroy families.
Ignorance does.
Isolation does.
Shame does.
Especially when it comes packaged in a suit with a microphone and a claim to public good.” 👍🏼💪🏼

@mwl I've known a number of people who are on the spectrum and have some familiarity with some of the severe challenges of raising them.

Most are/were not tragedies.

The problem with you, RFK, and your supporters, is lack of understanding. Sure, some people on the spectrum are tragedies, just like some neurotypical people are tragedies. But if you only look at the tragedies, you're misinformed and doing huge harm, both to millions of people as well as to our society and our country.

@Rand @mwl sometimes we write sins too
@MxVerda What do you mean by "sometimes we write sins too"?
What is "writing sin"? Who is "we"? Who originally wrote sin?
Panic! At The Disco: I Write Sins Not Tragedies [OFFICIAL VIDEO]

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Re: Watch "Panic! At The Disco: I Write Sins Not Tragedies"
Why? If you don't want to use words, never mind.
@Rand because it's a song?
@mwl I've never been diagnosed, but I'm sure I'm on the spectrum somewhere. I know for sure that I'm deeply different from other people. Except those I consider to be "my people". I find them at Defcon, at SF cons, and among my peers in engineering, and occasionally at gelato shops. What neurotypicals (aka "mundandes") never understand, and are probably incapable of understanding, is that every single breakthrough in human history is due to someone on the spectrum.
@mwl Autistic people have a low tolerance for lies & bullshit, and tell it like it is. In other words, exactly the kind of people most antithetical to fascism. No wonder authoritarians hate them and the Nazis tried to exterminate them.
@fazalmajid @mwl i tried saying this before
@mwl Excellent. Thank you for sharing!
@mwl Thank you. Fuck these people, fuck them and their stupid 1950s ideas. They will not win, and that is a fact.
@ZBennoui @mwl a lot of people will suffer avoidably in the meantime, so make sure to take breaks and rest between planning and harm mitigation
@mwl RFK Jr looks like a sock puppet made from a dry cumsock. Change my mind.
@mwl I did. and I did. and I did. Thanks for pointing to it.
@mwl as a neurodivergent person, I thank you for sharing this beautiful letter!!! Scum like RFK doesn't get it and wants us erased!!!
@mwl Thank you so much for this.
@mwl #RFKJr is an ignorant buffoon who will cause the death of millions of Americans.

@mwl
No.

Anyone forcing me to read a URL to figure out what the post is about can fuck off

@mwl I smiled and cried. Thank you.

@mwl You remember the line about W: "Born on 3rd base and congratulates himself for hitting a triple"?

RFKjr was born halfway between 3rd base and home plate and then ran backwards along the bases to get thrown out at 1st.

@mwl "The question isn’t whether people like my daughter have something to offer. It’s whether society is finally ready to stop measuring value with the wrong scale." /applause

You could have tone down the request for reading it though, cause I read it prepared to find flaws and use them to insult you.
What can I say, I run through spite :)

@mwl rfk looks and sounds like he was grown in a lab
@mwl Astonishing.
"Their worth is ... intrinsic."
@mwl we need more parents that will celebrate our difference and fight for us fiercely instead trying to make us fit in by force
@mwl Why should I? I don't care about crazy politicians from your country.
@mwl @davep Omg, this says it all so brilliantly. My eyes got sweaty.
@mwl I don't think MAGAts will read or contemplate any feedback. Gear up to block them in next elections.

@mwl @PE4KH Thank you for pointing out the urgency. At first I thought, ah, Anerican politics, so awful but not my hill to die on (as a European), and any beef someone has with JFK Jr. is most likely well-founded, but I don't need to know the details.

But your sense of urgency got me, and I did read this. I am very glad I did. I didn't know an expression of anger could be so beautiful.

So, to y'all, do read this. You'll be glad you did.

@mwl I've said it before, I'll say it again, given the chance I'd say it to his fucking face:

You want to know where the autistic people were when you were young? *Go ask your aunt Rosemary.*