@escape_velocity @lindsey @ilyasergey I use this to assuage my own anxiety! instead of asking them because I’m nervous, I ask them because I know mail providers lose stuff. provides a convenient hook for that first reminder. “hey I sent you an email a few days ago, wanted to confirm that it didn’t get lost to spam. I’m only asking for that reason, not because I am socially anxious and need to hear from you to validate my self-worth.”