Ms. Que BanhI feel safe, loved & appreciated for who I am, fully & completely.
Disabled POC women who have overcome much traumas, including being exploited/fetishized, like me, tend to have a very difficult time trusting new people in our lives. If we choose to trust you, it wasn't done quickly. We learned to trust some people, who are patient enough to be openly honest, respectful of us & understand why we move at a snail's pace.
In my past dating history, I've been fetishized for being Asian & also for being disabled. I'm not an object, like some men treated me as. I chose to stay single for years after my last split because I deserve better, was patient & had rebuilt a pretty content life by myself that I'm not willing to compromise for anyone who doesn't completely value my full worth. I won't negotiate on my own worth - I am a golden soul & deserve an equal.
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