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I set out to find a date within twelve hours. Could I summon a man to come hang out with me on the same day I set up my profile, then get him to bang me sideways in the twin room of a Travelodge?

https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/efficient-dating-experience/ Very much back on my bullshit. Fabulous art as always by @stuart_cb ❤️

Efficient #dating part 2: how to talk yourself out of a fuck.

Conclusion is up now! And you might be surprised by the ending...

https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/talk-yourself-out-of-a-fuck/

Gorgeous art by @stuart_cb <3

Efficient dating 2: How to talk yourself out of a fuck | Girl on the Net

We're snogging at my hotel, his dick is literally in my hand, and I really want to get laid. And yet! This man still managed to talk himself out of a fuck.

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@girlonthenet Oh my. This resonates on so many levels that aren't even sexual for me, but rather relate to disabled life in a majority non-disabled world. The changing rules of engagement, the tiredness, the struggle to maintain empathy and a measured response, the bar being so low... all of it.
@girlonthenet @stuart_cb Great writing, and really clear articulation of a story that's not often told. Sorry it turned out like this, and I'm with the people in the comments who say that three times is two too many.
@djm4 yeah, it is too many. I think I've had a number of interactions like this in my life, and it is quite tiring.
@girlonthenet Yeah. Sending you strength, sympathy and solidarity, if they're welcome.
@girlonthenet This one stuck with me overnight, I'm still baffled at how any of his actions after you asked him to slow down made any kind of sense to him.