@sortius
This makes me sad. I kinda knew Rob way back, when people with non geek interests from usenet met up in meatspace (which did inevitably end up nerd-fests).
Although I doubt I've seen him in person in probably 20 years, I'd always thought of him as "a good bloke" and "sort of a friend". Someone I;'d probably look up and arrange to grab a beer with if we were to cross paths.
But that last response to you was way over the top, even in a "feeling stressed and unappreciated mastodon instance admin" context.
And I can't seem to see that response any more, and the suspicion that's because he's deleted it makes me even sadder.