If you think I’m being extreme, read this saga of a trans person currently even trying to get a passport. They were lucky to have an old ID still, and to meet an understanding bureaucrat, https://www.reddit.com/r/Passports/s/JCrTkHeBco
It’s month one.
@hacks4pancakes I just used the ACLU of Massachusetts contact from to say that if they need more plaintiffs for lawsuits about this, I’m willing to be one.
Edit: my change from M -> F was at a time when we needed a surgeon's letter attesting to irreversible genital surgery. It's outrageous that the Trump administration is trying to revoke this change for me and many others, and I have hope the courts will agree it's out of order.
@womble Oh, not my intent at all. For sure.
But sometimes work visas require a position having been open and unfilled. I took a (visa mandatory) demotion. A lot of people would by necessity right now.
@womble So, all those sleepy vulture employers sponsoring H-1B visas, huh?
@szakib @mensrea @hacks4pancakes @womble eh, the US has *wild* inequality though so it depends.
Being poor in the US is worse than being poor most other places, but holding a 6.5-digit tech job is not something that really happens elsewhere.
Australia is about halfway - engineering salaries here are maybe 30-50% of Si-valley rates but about 2-3x much of Europe.
@hacks4pancakes @szakib @mensrea @womble I can confirm that, having recently been through a really bad diagnosis with my wife. We still have a house, and the total cost of treatment so far has been about $2k/yr in prescription meds.
Fourth round of surgery then second round of radiation is in a couple of weeks and has cost us *zero* so far. And that includes replacement of several things that I previously thought came under the heading "not field-serviceable", like vertebrae.
@badsynthesis @mensrea @hacks4pancakes @womble Yeah I once tried to hire a senior IT person moving from the US to FI and the offer we gave was very generous, but he refused. I spent half an hour explaining all the things he would not have to pay for here, but he just couldn't understand and refused. (He asked for about 50% more than anyone in FI would pay him.)
[Tangent: "wives" is a mistake that changes the meaning of your message in a funny way.]
@szakib @mensrea @hacks4pancakes @womble Haha, damn autocorrect. He only has one ;)
Yea I can imagine that conversation being tricky if the other part doesn't realize how different things are in some places across the pond.
@fnord99 how about not acting like an asshole?
People fear for their life and you're like "but what if a cis white man doesn't get a job?"
@hacks4pancakes we'll have general elections in 2 weeks with a real risk that our "conservatives" repeat their crimes of the 1930s and collaborate with our fash.
To avoid getting people out of the frying pan into the fire I'll do a damage assessment in 2 weeks and then circle back to your proposal, I promise.
@hacks4pancakes worst case we'll have to join you in AU (or NZ) so offering refuge in Germany currently doesn't appear to be a great idea.
I'll always be grateful for you keeping on being a light in the darkness, though, and I'll keep trying to keep up with you.❤️
@jik @hacks4pancakes Howdy fam; I’m working on a similar story right now. Having a second example would be extremely helpful to me.
Do you think your friend might be willing to speak to the press? If it helps, I’m also trans and *extremely tired of this bullshit*.