I started building my second brain in Obsidian three months ago but felt my graph view looked cluttered compared to others. It lacked that proper structure, and I found it unattractive.
Then I stopped worrying about it and focused on actually taking, revisiting, and revising my notes.
Looking back, I realize I was chasing aesthetics over substance.
Now, my graph looks better, but it doesn’t really matter—I neither feel proud nor annoyed by it.