I don't wear my heart on my sleeve.
Nor do I wear my poppy on my lapel.
Partly that's cos I hardly have lapels these days but also because I find they pin so insecurely they, like fallen Autumn leaves, quickly become litter.
I donate my money to the Poppy Appeal in support of those who have given so much, be they forced to serve or volunteered, but I leave the poppy with the vendor for the next donor.