A bit late for a #weekendpoll, but it's semi-urgent, so I thought I'd put this out nonetheless.

A question for #transfem girls out there (research for upcoming story):

If you are pre-op, i.e. still with a penis... (What's that called? Penified? Anyway...) Do you find penetrative sex with your penis...

#trans #poll #writing

unpleasant
35%
pleasant
32.5%
to be avoided at all cost
30%
preferable
2.5%
Poll ended at .

@Kathrin Trying to word this so as to not influence the poll but since this is a writing question a bit of nuance.

For me it's... uncomfortable as a concept. I've done it to please my partner and it's not unpleasant but it's not something I actively want to do. I'd rather give & receive pleasure in other ways but pleasing my partner is very important to me.

@Toni2167

Thank you very much! That's the kind of answer I was looking for.

@Kathrin I'm a writer myself who's slowly moving past long term writer's block since I came out as trans and figured out I'm non binary too. I kind of had a feeling. 😉

@Toni2167

The one thing that always gets me out of writer's block is the feeling of having an audience to write for. Social media helped, but previously just publishing half-finished, half-baked stuff on different sites helped as well.

There doesn't need to necessarily be an audience, it just needs to feel like there is.

@Kathrin "penified" 💀
@Kathrin am i allowed to vote if i dont intend to ever get genital surgery (apart from an orchiectomy which i would very much like to have)