A still from this morning's cam bate session.

#masturbation doesn't need to include #ejaculation to "count" as sex, but I am very much a #cummer and I love the total experience of arousal, edging, orgasm and aftercare. I want to take the full tour of my pleasure every day and fully embrace every element of it as fundamentally good.

For me, aftercare means staying with my body during the refractory period, loving how I feel, affirming my sexual vitality in all its phases.