Okay maybe on a more positive note: collectivists should talk more about what we would "bring" to an apocalypse. You need community to survive. I strongly believe every single person brings something to make a community better*. This could be a skill, a story, an experience, a talent or whatever else. The idea that you need to be able-bodied, neurotypical and eager to shoot stuff is bullshit.
I would bring: solid conflict resolution skills and a metric ton of patience, basic first aid skills (physical and psychological), I love to cook for many people and am quite good at it and if the internet is down: an almost photographic memory of shitty memes and like 4 TV shows that I could describe in great detail if y'all get bored.
And because I enjoy being a stereotypical dyke I can do almost anything from cutting hair to welding, from whistling on two fingers to fixing electrical appliances plus I love to skill share.
Dream bigger for futures societies. Leave the bunker bullshit behind.
* which obviously does not mean that people cannot endanger communities with their behaviour. This will still happen forever and exclusion needs to be an option.
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