I ended up cross-posting day-before-yesterday's tiny rant onto ErosBlog, where a commenter's question led me to expand on it, just a bit:
"I don’t mind saying that LOYALTY is pretty near the first duty of any spouse. If you aren’t first and foremost on their side, and they on yours, that’s bad. Causing your spouse pain may be inevitable — anybody can fuck up — but putting it on social media postured as funny? That’s NOT loyal enough."
http://www.erosblog.com/2023/03/30/husbands-who-dont-understand-the-assignment/
The least joyous thing I've seen today is a social media video under #CouplesHumor #MarriedHumor hashtags, where some dudebro husband tried to enact that... Tagged: sex blogging, couples, husband, Joyous Thing, married, wife