The least joyous thing I've seen today is a #CouplesHumor #MarriageHumor vid where hubby did that riddle-meme of asking/answering the "what do deli sandwiches and sex workers have in common?" for spousal reaction. I've seen funny ones where the misogynistic "I wouldn't need either one, if my wife was doing her fucking job!" punchline landed well, but in this one, her look of incomprehension that slowly dawned into hurt feelings was just heartbreaking. Dude, NOOO. Ya fucked up, don't post that!

I ended up cross-posting day-before-yesterday's tiny rant onto ErosBlog, where a commenter's question led me to expand on it, just a bit:

"I don’t mind saying that LOYALTY is pretty near the first duty of any spouse. If you aren’t first and foremost on their side, and they on yours, that’s bad. Causing your spouse pain may be inevitable — anybody can fuck up — but putting it on social media postured as funny? That’s NOT loyal enough."

http://www.erosblog.com/2023/03/30/husbands-who-dont-understand-the-assignment/

#marriage #wife

Husbands Who Don't Understand The Assignment - ErosBlog: The Sex Blog

The least joyous thing I've seen today is a social media video under #CouplesHumor #MarriedHumor hashtags, where some dudebro husband tried to enact that... Tagged: sex blogging, couples, husband, Joyous Thing, married, wife

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@ErosBlog extremely well said. I’ve not seen the thing in question, but your comment is spot on and I wish more people understood this.