My personal stance on #Eightpointapp RE: #techlgbt defed

We are a small server, but I was asked about this, so here we go.

I once stopped going to a coffee shop for 3 years because I was fed a nothing sandwich by internet outrage. Ever since I have been very careful with blanket decisions, especially when they impact others.

Most defeds I've done have been for trolls or Nazis.

We were all done with this situation back when the user was removed from their administrative post at #Eightpoint and left the server.

I want to be utterly clear, Laurelai Bailey is a bad person. She is not welcome on coop.lol now or at any point in the future. The amount of drama involving her across the internet is absolutely ludicrous for someone so unnoteworthy.

Incoming a super brief rundown. She has had allegations of SA placed against her. She has levied claims of libel against those accusers. In both situations, potential victims have made their decision to not pursue legal recourse. Clearly the truth must lie somewhere in the murky middle there, where only the people present actually know for certain what happened.

She has also been known to be an FBI informant. She was a mod for r/antiwork and r/ContraPoints and was removed following information that determined who she was.

I am not aware of any servers that she is currently on. If that changes, discussions will be held and a decision will be made then, not before. Anything short of that is harmful to the community at large.

cc: @12

@abby @12 Yeah, Very well said. That's what's really been messing with my head about this whole thing.

She was outed and left. This was done as a preventative measure.

So it seems like this worked out exactly how people would like this to go: she tried to disguise her identity, it was exposed, she left.

I do not understand why people feel that more needs to be done.

@sashafox @12 I think this would be a different discussion entirely if she was actively on a server. To my knowledge, she is not.

From a personal viewpoint, this person is messy to have on a server. I don't like specific things that she's done, but ultimately, a lot of it is coming down to the word of one person vs another. Unfortunately for her, because of her past, her word isn't worth a whole lot.

From an admin viewpoint, as a large instance, tech.lgbt just created a big fuss over a hypothetical situation. Unless someone's putting a big "We like nazis" or "We love *phobia" sign on their server, I'm more inclined to let things run their course within a server's own moderation.

@abby @sashafox we can definitively confirm that:

1: Laurelai is not on Eightpoint,
2: Laurelai will not be on Eightpoint, and
3: Laurelai is not and will not be on Eightpoint.

@abby @12 Yeah, it seems very like, war-on-terror-brained to like, justify all this fuss over the hypothetical situations they dream up that could potentially happen.

I halfway expect them to start asking us to scan our shoes through an xray scanner before logging on next, lol.

@abby @12
What's the eightpoint app?
@AutisticMumTo3 @abby it's a cute little Mastodon instance run by a blind girl and a few others across the world; we're friendly and have cookies!