Rev.Hans Dec 18, 2022
Men, Is your nervous system really up for marriage?
For most of us the answer is “No.”
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#marriage #nervoussystemtraining #menswork #relationships #Yoga
Is your nervous system capable of what marriage asks of you? #menswork #marriage #nervoussystem

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Show threadGeorgeElderDec 18, 2022
@hanspetermeyer 51 years married. No health issues.
Show threadRev.Hans Dec 18, 2022
@gelder Congratulations! Not too many have the nervous system to do that many years together.
And how have you handled the ups and downs, the "crucible" of marriage?
Show threadGeorgeElderDec 22, 2022
@hanspetermeyer Selflessness. We laugh a lot. For the most part, we have the same likes and dislikes.
Show threadRev.Hans Dec 22, 2022
@gelder “selflessness” - I like that. Were you selfless at the beginning, or is this something you learned?
Show threadGeorgeElderDec 22, 2022
@hanspetermeyer From the beginning. Thanks
Show threadRev.Hans 
@gelder Where do you think this wisdom came from? Parents? Something you read or heard?
Ps. Thanks for answering so far. LMK when you've had enough.
Pps. I coach/teach men, & I'm writing a serialized book, Apprenticeship to Love. All of what you're saying is relevant & appreciated.
Dec 22, 2022 at 9:51pmWeb
Show threadGeorgeElderDec 23, 2022
@hanspetermeyer Definitely from my parents. I am one of 10 children, so we learned to share and care for each other from birth. Catholic schools for both wife and me which must have informed our values, however not religious now.
Show threadRev.Hans Dec 23, 2022
@gelder Thank you.