It's one of my more #problematic traits, I know, but, like, while I don't expect old-school #chivalry from men or complain about its absence, when a guy does bring that stuff to the table, I swoon. There's no faster panty-dropper for me. It tells me that he sees me as a woman, or at least he's willing to pretend that he does. It makes me feel valued and safe and secure and cared for and those things make me want him inside me.