@boysmashy (a) I used to be much bigger. North of 340. Then diabetes and, in recent years, a lack of money for food made most of it go away. I'm a comfortable 220 pounds, but still plenty of meat on the bones

(b) I'm on the opposite of things: a member that people seem to be more enthralled with than the person it's attached to. My libido's up and down due to missed puberty and missed opportunities.

(c) I don't have body issues like others do. I've made peace with it for the most part.

@boysmashy (d) Until about 2w ago I didn't think I could penetrate another man. Then someone gave me a chance. That's opened up a new world of possibilities. But my logistics and location may render it moot for now. I doubt it'll change much for me. We shall see, however.