People grumbling that #Mastodon is slow at the moment... You just turned up with 1 million people in a tiny, rural village and you're complaining there's a queue to get into the only tearoom, which is run by gay pensioners Babs & Maureen as a retirement hobby on Mons-Weds. Relax!
#TwitterMigration
To my new followers: You will experience delays as both a new signup (email delays) & an existing user (slow service; inability to load images, etc). It will settle down. Patience will be required. Remember, Mastodon is run by volunteers. It's not corporate & is still in the process of upscaling.
Mastodon is different. It's polite and friendly. There's a different code of conduct (please look up some of the basics), a slower pace. It's not a sprawling, hectic shopping centre in a grim industrial park on the city rim; it's a pleasant village street with artisanal shops and cafes. Take your time. Be nice.
@Richard_Littler
Being on Mastodon for the past few days and it reminded me of the friendliness of the earlier days of the Internet, before *coughs* forced engagement, and *coughs* metrics. It's nice to feel heard and seen, and to reciprocate naturally to that. I don't mind the slowness.

@djphng @Richard_Littler

I mean, the old internet also had trolls and flamewars and whatnot, but it was much more of a local phenomenon. The biggest fault of the Big Socials has been to pump up the scale of these to worldwide.

@oblomov

Oh yeah, they were part of the lnternet landscape back then too. It's an inevitable part of the commentary and exchanges on the web. But it's increasingly difficult to get a conversation, or any dialogue going on a neutral level without getting personally attacked or canceled. So socialising becomes a loaded process, where you figure out that its pointless, exhausting and keep your thoughts to yourself. At least that's how the bird site felt to me.

@oblomov

I feel (personally) that the Big Socials should be accountable for trying to maximise that effect.

@djphng @Richard_Littler

Big Social: «accountable? us? for anything? bwuhawuhawuha»

(Joking aside, the inner structure of those things is designed for avoidance; just look at how FB is defending from the privacy violations)

@oblomov

Well, they can't blame the Mass Twitter Exodus then. 😂

That's just disturbing, really. You've just reminded me of this New Yorker interview...

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/09/17/can-mark-zuckerberg-fix-facebook-before-it-breaks-democracy