To love
Is also good ()
Love between one person and another: that is perhaps the hardest thing that is laid upon us do, the utmost, the ultimate trial and test, the work for which all other work is just preparation. ()
Beginners in everything, do not yet (consciously, p01) know how to love ()
An apprenticeship () is always a long, secluded period, and love too is for a great time and far into life: heightened and deepened loneliness for the one one in love.
Love at first has nothing to do with unfolding, abandon and uniting with another person (for what be the sense in a union of what is unrefined and unfinished, still second order);
For the individual it is a grand opportunity to mature, to become something in him (her, p01) self, to become a world in him (her, p01) self for another's sake ()
The unfolding, the abandon and any kind of togetherness () are the culmination.
But () people () fling themselves at another, when love comes over them ()
In all their () confusion..
But what can come of that? ()
Each person loses him (her, p01) self () for the other’s sake and loses the other ()
Loses the expanses and possibilities,
Exchanges the nearing and fleeing of delicate, mysterious things for ()
The escape into one of the many conventions which like public shelters are set up in great numbers along this most dangerous of paths.
No area of human experience is so well furnished with conventions as this ()
Society in its wisdom has found ways of constructing refuges of all kinds,
For since it has been disposed to make the love-life a pastime, it also felt obliged to trivialize it,
To make it cheap, risk-free and secure, as public pleasure usually are.
Letters to a Young Poet, Rainer Maria Rilke
Excerpts
1/2, p01
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