In another corner of the interwebz, I saw a post where someone said, "Hey #wlw. Let's talk about your type. What's your girlfriend type?"
I was like... ugh. Really? Does this happen in the lesbian community too? There were responses of "where are all the mascs?" and "Never date a masc" There was "fems will only break your heart" and "She has to be a fem." type of replies.
I don't know. I feel like you shouldn't limit yourself to a type or profile someone based on height or he or she has to be younger than X-age or be taller than X-height.
Seems like you limit yourself. If I were in the dating pool I wouldn't do that. Well, except she'd have to be funny. We'd have the same sense of humor. She'd be able to make me laugh.
Well she'd also have to be about my age. That doesn't seem unreasonable. Alright and she'd also be confident, comfortable in her skin.
Well if we're dreaming, she's also intelligent, articulate, witty, empathetic, kind, generous, emotionally available.
She's athletic, likes the outdoors, takes care of herself physically and mentally. She's physically attractive to me and delightfully feminine buhhhtt...
if she happens to have a tiny bit of soft, masc-energy and wears a suit every so often?... 🫦
😳
Okay fine!
So I've got a type, dammit.