Let every man know that true #manliness isn't about power-over or domination that #rape signifies. True manliness & #virility are about #virtue (vir: man in Latin). Teach that to our boys & men, court judges, politicians & media-buying billionaires. Photo: #WalkAMileInHerShoes vs SA, GBV, U. of Central Ark.
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Let every man know that true #manliness isn't about power-over or the domination that #rape signifies. True manliness & #virility are about #virtue (vir means man in Latin). Let us teach that to our boys & men, court judges, politicians & media-buying billionaires. https://bit.ly/4kJtcbH

#Women #Trump #Arrogance #Aggression #Virility #SimonedeBeauvoir

“No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility.”

Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex

#nonce is two separate nouns:

Nonce (1) means: The one or single occasion; the present reason or purpose.
(Etymology 1 is inherited from Middle English nonse, nones.)

Nonce (2, in Britain and Ireland) means: A sex offender, especially one who perpetrates against children.
(Etymology 2 is dated 1975, in British criminal slang.) French equivalent: #pointeur

More: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/nonce

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nonce - Wiktionary, the free dictionary

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A quotation from Teddy Roosevelt

The man who does nothing cuts the same sordid figure in the pages of history, whether he be cynic, or fop, or voluptuary. There is little use for the being whose tepid soul knows nothing of the great and generous emotion, of the high pride, the stern belief, the lofty enthusiasm, of the men who quell the storm and ride the thunder.

Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919) American politician, statesman, conservationist, writer, US President (1901-1909)
Speech (1910-04-23), “Citizenship in a Republic [The Man in the Arena],” Sorbonne, Paris

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/roosevelt-theodore/7…

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Let every man know that true #manliness isn't about power-over or the domination that #rape signifies. True manliness & #virility are about #virtue (vir means man in Latin). Let us teach that to our boys & men, court judges, politicians & media-buying billionaires. #GisèlePelicot https://bit.ly/3VLZhoI
Avignon, Aboriginals, Washington DC: Patriarchy on Trial - Daily Meditations with Matthew Fox

Today, December 19, was not a good day for Patriarchy.  It is the day 51 men in Avignon, France, were declared guilty of raping Gisèle Pelicot and were sentenced to jail.  Her ex-husband, Dominique, was sentenced to the maximum 20 years in jail for organizing regular rape sessions and inviting other men, ranging in ages from […]

Daily Meditations with Matthew Fox
At Notre Dame de Reims

John Burnside the snake is a snake; but the toad has a human face, in the hidden gallery under the roof, where the masons practised their art, away from the bishops and kings. We’ve seen this muc…

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What I learned about street harassment after I transitioned

I used to be allowed my personal space. Now that I inhabit a female body I cannot escape unwanted attention

The Guardian

"If a young woman does not follow the social injunction to have feelings in a sexual relationship, she knows that she risks being called to order, being punished. Or to feel shame or guilt. This burden of the social norm is primarily internalised."

"There is, in all circles, the threatening 'spectre of the faggot'. The determination to appear as 'a man, a real man' and secure one's masculinity, while escaping suspicion of homosexuality, which is considered demeaning and dangerous. Some gay boys from privileged backgrounds have told me that they were in a relationship with a girl at school to give the impression, to cover their tracks."

An interview with Isabelle Clair, in 2023 (fr) https://www.ouest-france.fr/societe/sexualite/entretien-des-lage-de-15-ans-on-reve-detre-en-couple-explique-cette-sociologue-2fee21ae-cc7e-11ed-8144-e74efc02d2d3 @sociology @edutooters 🧶

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ENTRETIEN. « Dès l’âge de 15 ans, on rêve d’être en couple », explique cette sociologue

La sociologue Isabelle Clair s’est penchée sur les amours adolescentes. Très tôt, le couple hétérosexuel fait rêver et permet d’affirmer son appartenance à un genre. Avec des peurs teintées d’homophobie et de sexisme : les garçons redoutent de passer pour des « pédés », et les filles pour des « putes ». Les relations qui se tissent sont toujours très inégalitaires.

Ouest-France