Calculations and consequences

Lately, as part of what I’m starting to jokingly think of in my head as The Long Goodbye, I have been reviewing many aspects of the past 14 1/2 years of work. This includes thinking through what to…

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A jackass for a boss

We all encounter bosses who have obviously failed up, and they are relatively easy to spot. I’ve encountered many examples of this in my own career. The following list might be helpful to sha…

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Grief and headaches

As expected, we continue to grieve Teddy’s death. The day he died, we packed up his crate and his things and put them away because I couldn’t bear to see them as a visible reminder that he’s gone. …

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Brainstorming is supposed to spark innovation, but in toxic organizations? It’s just theater with Post-its. 🎭

Here’s how to spot performative brainstorming, and how to flip it back into a real tool for creativity and team buy-in.

👉 Great ideas don’t die from lack of creativity. They die from lack of courage.

#Leadership #WorkplaceCulture #PsychologicalSafety #Innovation #ToxicWorkplaces

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/09/24/when-brainstorming-becomes-a-performance-review-in-disguise/

When Brainstorming Becomes a Performance Review in Disguise

Written By Cari Borden We’ve all been told that brainstorming is the magic ticket to innovation: gather a team, fill a whiteboard with wild ideas, and suddenly you’ve unlocked creativity at scale. …

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A misty moisty morning

My grandma used to talk about “a misty, moisty morning.” That is what we have today where I live. It reminds me of her and how much she meant to me and how much she influenced my life. My time with…

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Sweet corn and tomatoes

Sweet corn and garden-grown tomatoes, a favorite food choice of the rapidly fading summer, were the stars of our supper yesterday. My wife and I had picked up some of both at a nearby farm stand. I…

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Perpetually tired

I suppose it’s an inevitable consequence of advancing age, but I’m tired of being perpetually tired. I’m tired of many things, not least of which is the Dumbass-in-Chief and their dumbass minions a…

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Emotional labor in libraries

Recently, I read a post on a blog that spotlights the hard reality a librarian working in a public library setting faces on a daily basis. It’s distressing to read, in a way, but is not at al…

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📣 Just because you’re good at functioning while fractured doesn’t mean you should be expected to.
If your job praises your resilience but ignores your reality—it’s not a compliment.
It’s a red flag.

💻 Read the blog: “Just Because You Can Work Through Trauma Doesn’t Mean You Should Have To.”
✨ Because surviving work isn’t the same as thriving in it.

#WorkplaceTrauma #BurnoutCulture #LeadBoldly #ToxicWorkplaces #MentalHealthMatters #LeadershipDevelopment

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/07/04/just-because-you-can-work-through-trauma-doesnt-mean-you-should-have-to/

Just Because You Can Work Through Trauma Doesn’t Mean You Should Have To

Written By Cari Borden Why unhealthy expectations have become the norm in toxic workplaces, and how we break the cycle. There’s a dangerous myth quietly running many workplaces today: “They’re stro…

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