🤓😎🤔🧐🥸💁🏿♀️*Psychology says people who insist on doing everything themselves aren't controlling — they learned early that the cost of depending on someone👉
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Psychology says people who insist on doing everything themselves aren't controlling — they learned early that the cost of depending on someone and being disappointed was higher than the cost of exhaustion, and they've been running that math ever since – VegOut
https://vegoutmag.com/lifestyle/j-a-y-psychology-says-people-who-insist-on-doing-everything-themselves-arent-controlling-they-learned-early-that-the-cost-of-depending-on-someone-and-being-disappointed-was-higher-than-the-cost-of-exh/

The person who insists on doing everything alone isn't flexing — they're running a cost-benefit equation they learned before they had the language for it, and exhaustion always wins because it's predictable.
"... But the cities were stricken with disease: those who were engaged in political and practical affairs were taking bribes and being corrupted by the hope of money; while the mass of private citizens either showed no foresight, or else were caught by the bait of ease and leisure from day to day; and all alike had fallen victims to some such delusive fancy, as that the danger would come upon every one but themselves, and that through the perils of others they would be able to secure their own position as they pleased. 46 And so, I suppose, it has come to pass that the masses have atoned for their great and ill-timed indifference by the loss of their freedom, while the leaders in affairs, who fancied that they were selling everything except themselves, have realized that they had sold themselves first of all. For instead of being called friends and guest-friends, as they were called at the time when they were taking their bribes, they now hear themselves called flatterers, and god-forsaken, and all the other names that they deserve. 47 For no one, men of Athens, spends his money out of a desire to benefit the traitor; nor, when once he has secured the object for which he bargains, does he employ the traitor to advise him with regard to other objects: if it were so, nothing could be happier than a traitor. But it is not so, of course. Far from it! When the aspirant after dominion has gained his object, he is also the master of those who have sold it to him: and because then he knows their villainy, he then hates and mistrusts them, and covers them with insults. 48 For observe-- for even if the time of the events is past, the time for realizing truths like these is ever present to wise men. ..."
-- #Demosthenes, #On The Crown, 330 B. C.
How Chinese AI Chatbots Censor Themselves
https://misryoum.com/us/economy/how-chinese-ai-chatbots-censor-themselves/
Hearing someone talk about digital censorship in China is always either extremely boring or extremely interesting. Most of the time, people are still regurgitating the same talking points from 20 years ago about how the Chinese internet is like living...
#How #Chinese #Chatbots #Censor #Themselves #US_News_Hub #misryoum_com
Lawmakers resign themselves to lengthy DHS shutdown
https://misryoum.com/us/congress/lawmakers-resign-themselves-to-lengthy-dhs-shutdown/
Lawmakers left Washington for a week-long recess Thursday, showing no urgency to avert a shutdown at the Department of Homeland Security that will take effect Saturday morning. The overwhelming sense of resignation reflected the reality that neither Republicans nor Democrats...
#Lawmakers #resign #themselves #lengthy #DHS #shutdown #US_News_Hub #misryoum_com
Cognitive dissonance.
If matrix is flawed it reflects poorly on their choices and thus #themselves and that's unacceptable, therefore you must be wrong about matrix.
And yeah, that makes no sense. But that's at least part of "why do people defend broken shit".