#neuroscience #loneliness #dopamine #SocialInteraction

"Why we crave company

Neuroscientists are discovering that spending time with others may be a basic biological necessity, like need for food or water.

To our human eyes, a mouse’s furred face doesn’t betray much emotion. But if you watch the body language of a mouse who’s reunited with one of her sisters after five days in a cage alone, you might suspect you know what she’s feeling.

The formerly isolated mouse chatters in squeaks too high for a human to hear. She follows her sister, crawling beneath the other mouse’s body as if trying to get a hug. She looks like she’s feeling what you or I feel when meeting a long-lost friend or a family member — maybe with more sniffing.

She looks like she’s been lonely.

Loneliness isn’t just for humans, and neither are its harms. Over the past decade or so, some researchers have come to believe that an animal’s craving for the company of others isn’t just a preference, but a basic, deeply held need. When we don’t socialize enough, we feel the lack like hunger or thirst, they say. When we’ve had our fill of togetherness, we feel satisfied or quenched.

The amount of socializing a creature needs may be particular to that species, and even to that individual. Scientists have found within-species social differences in birds, monkeys, fish and even cockroaches.

Among humans, 'you can feel lonely at a party, or you can feel fine alone in your office,' says Kay Tye, a neuroscientist at the Salk Institute for Biological Studies in California. Whatever the ideal degree of togetherness, Tye and others think that an animal’s need to balance time alone and time with others represents a kind of homeostasis: an equilibrium that’s critical for survival. Today, they are on a hunt to find where, in the brain, this equilibrium is controlled — and hoping their work will hold dividends for lonely humans.

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Within each species, Clutton-Brock says evolution has probably allowed for a range of personality types around a certain species average. 'There are costs to too much anxiety' about being alone, he says, 'and costs to too little anxiety.' A species may do best with a mix of social styles.

Whatever an animal’s right amount of social activity, research suggests there can be dire consequences to mental and physical health when it’s not met. People who are socially isolated, or feel lonely, die sooner. Poor social connections are linked to heart disease and stroke. Certain female rats, when housed alone, are more likely to develop cancer.

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The scientists hypothesized that other animals, including humans, share this system. Though it’s not easy to test such a thing in people, Tye did team up with a research group at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology for an experiment in which people sat alone in a room for 10 hours.

Afterward, subjects reported craving social interaction. When they viewed pictures of people laughing together, their brains lit up in the same region as the brains of fasting subjects who viewed pictures of food: an area, also within the brainstem, packed with dopamine neurons that are involved in cravings.

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What’s more, when scientists used a technical trick called optogenetics to artificially activate the separation neurons every time the animals entered a certain chamber, the mice avoided spending time there. That suggested that these brain cells, when activated, give the mice a bad feeling. 'It’s unpleasant to be alone, in the same way it has been shown that it’s unpleasant to be hungry,' says Dulac, who coauthored an overview of social interaction as a fundamental need in the 2026 Annual Review of Neuroscience."

https://knowablemagazine.org/content/article/mind/2026/why-we-crave-social-interaction

shopper *hangs up* *takes receipt*

me: i'm sorry, I didn't mean to eavesdrop....

I proceeded to tell her what I'd heard from the machine & then from her. First instant, she was perplexed -- then she laughed & said, "I did do that!" I said it was great. She laughed some more, then wished me a good day. I wished her the same, and she walked out of the store smiling.

It's these little moments, y'know?

#ItsTheLittleThings
#humans
#HumansHumaningTogether
#SocialInteraction
#laughter
#smiles

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This piece examines how loneliness can lead people to seek companionship through chatbots, and how this use may, over time, intensify feelings of loneliness.

The topic is of interest to psychology enthusiasts because it highlights the interplay between perceived social isolation and technology-mediated interactions, illustrating potential short-term benefits and possible long-term drawbacks of AI-based companionship.

Article Title: Turning to chatbots when lonely may exacerbate feelings of loneliness, study finds

Link to PsyPost Article: https://nolinkpreview.com/www.psypost.org/turning-to-chatbots-when-lonely-may-exacerbate-feelings-of-loneliness-study-finds/

#Loneliness #AIcompanionship #Chatbots #Psychology #SocialConnection #LonelinessResearch #EmotionalIsolation #MentalHealth #SocialInteraction #AIethics

🚨 Breaking News: 🚨 Behold the ultimate guide for turning every social interaction into a confusing, isolating mess! 🤡 Just assume everyone's out to get you, never question your paranoid assumptions, and whatever you do, DO NOT display any knowledge—because ignorance is strength! 😂
https://nate.leaflet.pub/3mk4xkaxobc2p #BreakingNews #SocialInteraction #Paranoia #IgnoranceIsStrength #Humor #HackerNews #ngated
how to be anti-social - n8

a guide to incoherent and isolating social experiences

Curious to learn how to study real interactions in large groups but missed our Hyperscanning Summer School? 

In this session, David Zijderveld walks us through:
🟡 What makes Brite Ultra the hyperscanning fNIRS device
🔵 How it enables seamless large-group measurements
🟡 What this means for the future of social neuroscience

🔗 Catch up anytime and see large-scale hyperscanning in action:

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#Hyperscanning #fNIRS #BriteUltra #Artinis #Neuroscience #SocialInteraction

🤖💬 Oh, Ashley Rolfmore is back to remind us that humans should communicate like, well, humans. Apparently, engineers have transformed social interaction into a "framework" because words like "talk" are too aggressive. 😂 Next up: reinventing "eye contact" as "visual interfacing protocol." 🥴
https://ashley.rolfmore.com/stop-trying-to-engineer-your-way-out-of-listening-to-people/ #humanscommunicate #socialinteraction #engineeringhumor #communicationframework #eyecontact #HackerNews #ngated
Stop trying to engineer your way out of listening to people

I spend a lot of time negotiating this in the software world: And if you're wondering why this happens, it's normally because: 1. people aren't talking to people 2. people aren't listening So lots of designers and product people have leapt onto 1, basically trying to turn talking to people

Ashley Rolfmore

On Sunday at the end of a group activity someone said to me "Happy Easter", despite that person knowing that I am an atheist; out of habit?🤷‍♂️

I was not expecting that, so could not respond with "Happy Sunday|weekend, just like any other". Decided against the response of "Happy Sunday" as it felt not as annoying as the original.

Best could have happened was awkwardness felt by the person & other people around due to my silence.

#lateComebackResponse #socialInteraction

This article reports findings from a study showing that psychopathic traits are linked to reduced emotional and physiological connection during real-time conversations, particularly affecting affective sharing and bodily synchrony, even though empathic accuracy may remain intact.

The work highlights how empathy dynamics in real-world interactions can diverge from lab-based assessments, offering insight into the social aspects of psychopathy and the role of physiological synchrony in connecting with others.

Article Title: Psychopathic traits are linked to a lack of physical and emotional connection during face-to-face interactions

Link to PsyPost Article: https://www.psypost dot org/psychopathic-traits-are-linked-to-a-lack-of-physical-and-emotional-connection-during-face-to-face-interactions/

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#psychopathy #empathy #physiologicalsynchrony #emotionalconnection #socialinteraction

📚 Oh, the horror! #Writers need social interaction? Who knew! 🙄 Virginia Woolf's iconic space and financial freedom for women to write is *so* passé now that we remember human contact is a thing. Next up: rediscovering fire! 🔥
https://newrepublic.com/article/206731/loneliness-room-one-virginia-woolf-hold-up #SocialInteraction #VirginiaWoolf #Creativity #RediscoveringFire #HackerNews #ngated
The Loneliness of A Room of One’s Own

Virginia Woolf put forward an enduring vision of women with the space and financial stability to write. But it’s also a sad vision—of isolated writers, cut off from peers or mentors.

The New Republic