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chloespankedChastity day 24 – a year of orgasm denial and preventing erections?
Chastity day 24 – a year of orgasm denial and preventing erections? - Lemmy NSFW
In the beginning, I used chastity mainly to intensify play sessions (eg, extend them by delaying fapping; ie, orgasm control). Then, I used chastity mainly to create a more desirable physical feminine or submissive form and for short-term behavioural changes (e.g., feeling more submissive). A few times, I’ve tried using chastity mainly as a form of orgasm denial (ie, trying to go without an orgasm for as long as I can). Right now, I’m really into orgasm denial. My personal best is reaching 52 days. My next best would be my current streak. I’ve also reached day 21 a separate time. I’m thinking I might try to go all of 2026 without an orgasm (anal orgasms are okay). I’m interested in this for a few reasons. First, orgasm denial seems to have pretty potent psychological effects, although people vary. Second, orgasm denial seems very under-researched. Third, I think orgasm denial can help bring out feminine and submissive sides of myself that I’d like to accentuate. I think I might start an orgasm denial community here. I realize that this is the stuff of online fantasy more so than reality, but I’m curious and want to try it out. I’d love to shrink my penis and prevent erections more or less permanently. Besides surgery or hormones, short-acting medication, and a couple unsafe practices with dubious efficacy on the internet, preventing nocturnal erections seems like the only way to achieve this. I’m going to try a makeshift inverted chastity cage with a makeshift chastity strap to keep it close to my body. If I can keep all penile engorgement internal and small, and the body’s efforts at nocturnal tumescence don’t wake me up, that might be good enough to notice fewer erections during the day, play time, or when testing myself to see if I can get hard. Failing this, I’d love to be able to sleep in my cage, which is a big step for me to being able to be caged 24/7 outside of cleaning, etc. I have my first metal cage on its way to me to help with chafing from nocturnal erection pulling. I’ll be sure to watch for any adverse effects from my experimentation overnight. If I can’t stop erections and/or tolerate wearing my cage overnight, I’ll need to accept that I’m a kind of girl that gets erections, just think of them as cute and move on maybe
Chastity day 11 - chastity social update
Chastity day 11 - chastity social update - Lemmy NSFW
Hey y’all 🥰. So I went to that chastity social last night. It was at a gay leather bar, and it felt that way more than I had anticipated. It’s not my scene. Like, it would have been nice to see a woman in the building 🙈. I saw some other kinks though, like a pup that had a belt with an electronic tail on it that wagged. And armpit-licking. Also not my things, but I appreciated the spirit of inclusivity and positivity to the event. The “clothes check” was not secure. I sort of lurked for an hour and didn’t show my cage. The highlight of the event, that I saw, was when self-identified contestants had 10 minutes to adorn their cages with Christmas-like crap that was provided, and then afterwards the audience voted (by applause) on the best-dressed cage. I think I will go next month and will plan to show my cage. However, I need to go in expecting to gratify a kink (so to speak) with little sexual attraction. Usually, the two are coupled, but in this case I kind of just want the thrill of consenting people - who I don’t happen to be that attracted to - to see me in my cage irl. Second, I want to have a belt bag to keep my valuables on me. Going pantsless is enough of a gamble. Also losing my keys, wallet, phone while being pantless and locked in public - not going to risk that 😳 ~ Yesterday - maybe it was anxiety about going to my first chastity social - but I was mentally irritable, which I partly attribute to going all this time without a penile orgasm. Today, on the other hand, my mood’s much better. I was feeling frisky [https://lemmynsfw.com/post/34314146] when I got up this morning. As picture, I’m trying a 40mm ring instead of my previous 44mm one today. I’m hoping I can downsize eventually. For now, chafing with the 40mm one is worse, and I’m using quite a bit more lube. However, I think it might be tight enough to effectively reduce noctunal erections, which would make sleeping in a cage easier. Also: I can’t notice the smaller ring between my legs at all when I walk, which helps me feel and maybe move a little sexier in my gait, which I love. I started a community about sexual betas [https://lemmynsfw.com/c/betazonensfw] (eg, cuckoldry, sph, penis size comparison). Obviously, there’s overlap with sissy and sissy communities ([sissy]), but I think the overtly ‘sexually inferior and not a man’ fetish is sufficiently different. I don’t even love the alpha and beta language per se, but I appreciate them as easy to use terms. I’m all hot for beta stuff at the moment. Contributions welcome :)
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