‘Each person is […] bound by different moral commitments towards the aggressor – depending on the position held and the relationship with one or the other’.

‘In the extended family, friendship and professional circles within which incest is reported, some, now adults, have obviously themselves been victims of abuse, others have been or still are abusers. In the vast majority of cases, these incestuous acts, whether suffered or imposed, have not been reported to the courts or made public. These incestuous acts are also known to others, who talk about them, have talked about them or will talk about them in the future. Circles of acquaintance and gossip intersect.’

Léonore Le Caisne (fr) https://blogs.mediapart.fr/leonore-le-caisne/blog/130121/qu-est-ce-que-le-silence-de-l-inceste

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Qu’est-ce que le silence de l’inceste?

L’inceste serait un « tabou », un acte interdit qui toucherait au sacré ou à l’impur et dont la transgression, rare, serait tenue secrète, au risque de polluer la société. Mais qu’est-ce qu’avoir « su » mais pas « dit » ? Qu’est-ce, en fait, qu’avoir « dit » ? Quelle parole, adressée à qui et à quel moment, est dotée du pouvoir de « dire » ce qui s’est passé ?

Mediapart

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The director of the institution, Pierre Silviet-Carricart, has been charged of the case of sexual assault. François Bayrou asked the investigating judge for a meeting at his place. The discussion was around the risks for the Bayrous' son, then a student at the boarding school. François Bayrou's wife attended the director's funeral in 2000.

At Parliament, on 11th February 2025, François Bayrou was representing the government for the weekly question-and-answer session. When asked about #Bétharram, he stated before the National Assembly that he had "never been informed of any violence, and even less of sexual violence".

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