We have to make sure that #education isn't seen as
#nsfw. Naked bodies aren't sexual , so is also #sexed, #gendered or
#anything else that's #neurodivergent or #queer.
I know I'm going over a lot here but this topic has a wide overlap
with a genuine argument inside which can be abused by the right, the
#whataboutthechildren people. Don't let them shape the narrative.
Don't fear monger either. I have seen a lot of #linux post like that. [3/3]
https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/lets-get-tested-hien-pham/
You may already know that getting STI tests regularly is important, but do you know what actually happens in them? Hien Pham takes us behind the exam room door in this comic about getting swabbed and making samples!
#Webcomic #STI #SexEd
okay so, what can I do if I'm (glances at calendar) 8mo into HRT as a trans woman and my arousal/horniness is effectively gone. I look at porn or touch myself and I feel nothing, not even the slightest flutter of excitement or arousal. like, mechanically I get aroused and can achieve climax, but outside of that it's just empty and not fulfilling

is this just my life now? I really hope not, because I hate it, I yearn to be horny again :c

edit: oh yeah I guess I should say that I am taking prog (100mg micronized, rectally) and have been for about 3mo now

#sex #sexed #trans #help

https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/sti-disclosure-erika-moen
Do you need to disclose your STI and you just don't even know where to start? Erika Moen shares her own approach to this stigmatized subject!

Become our friend with benefits over on https://patreon.com/ohjoysextoy
#Webcomic #STI #SexEd

@lackthereof no, it's not because unlike #Phones and #PhoneNumbers, #eMail is not necessarily traceable by circumstances.

  • Because a Phone "Line" (regardless of whether it's POTS, ISDN, VoIP, GSM, VoLTE, …) and #telephony in general are designed for realtime communication, they inherently necessitate an active, ongoing connection.
    • Even if it's just some App/PBX/… to connect to the provider and constantly state "I am on the network and able to recieve calls!" (with PSTN networks, there a physical line that gets assumed to have a phone connected)…

Whereas with eMail (and any #asynchronous #communication) you don't have that requirement.

  • So unless the provider is being taken over or otherwise "cooperative" there's no means for a sender to know where, when and how a message was retrieved unless the recipient wants the sender to know of it!

Or to put it simple:

  • You can ring up someone and thus circumstantially verify the chain of #PhoneNumber -> #IMSI -> #ICCID -> #SIM -> #IMEI -> Device -> Location -> Owner quite quickly.
    • Whereas you can't positively verify whether an eMail address and/or #XMPP+#OMEMO account belongs to me unless I want you to know that it does!

So either way a phone number is just a horrible means of doing that.

  • And don't even get me started on the fact that legally speaking noone truly owns their number.
    • Because even if you got some spechal case number (like UPT was) you still depend on neither regulators nor telcos to not block or otherwise interfere with it. Which is in contrast to say an OnionService which can only be shutdown effectively by sabotage aka. (more or less figurately) "unplugging" it.

I mean, it's not as if I didn't gave @signalapp a fair chance.

  • I wanted #Signal to be good - honestly...
    • But I'm old enough that things rarely are that simple as #TechPopulism & #Propaganda claim it to be.
    • Just like 5th grade #SexEd is not a substitute for Endocrinology, Gynecology and Andrology and actually licensed, medical professionals.

So any #Messenger service that requires a #Phone Number for signup and/or useage is truly not a real replacement and inherently makes PROVEN WRONG assumptions [i.e. that it is legal and possible to obtain a phone number anonymously at someone's juristiction] about it's customers' ability to shield their privacy

THIS is why I am going fucking ballistic on #TechPopulism aiming at #TechIlliterates because it's spreading a "false sense of #security" whilst completely disregarding absolute fundamentals when it comes to the underlying systems.

ProtonMail Sends User IP and Device Info to Swiss Authorities.

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Federal Funding for People in Poverty Is Going to Anti-Abortion Centers Instead

At least eight states gave Temporary Assistance for Needy Families funds to crisis pregnancy centers in recent years.

https://murica.website/2026/03/federal-funding-for-people-in-poverty-is-going-to-anti-abortion-centers-instead/

Federal Funding for People in Poverty Is Going to Anti-Abortion Centers Instead – The USA Potato

Anorgasmia Explained: Why You Can’t Orgasm and What to Do

Struggling to orgasm? Learn what anorgasmia is, why it happens, and realistic ways to explore pleasure, sex toys and treatments that may help.

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In my first article for Script, I unpack whether you need dental dams amongst your safer sex supplies – and dig into why they’re often the only way in which sex education attempts to include queer women.

https://www.script.health/article/dental-dams

#SexEd #LGBTQ #LGBTQHealth

The truth about dental dams

Does anyone really use them? Should you?

G-Spot Toys Guide: How to choose the best vibrators and dildos for G-spotting success 💦

https://carasutra.com/2024/04/g-spot-toys-guide/

#SexToys #SexEd #OrgasmEducation #SexPositive #BuyingGuide #Blogging #EvergreenContent #Affiliate

Best G-Spot Toys Guide for Intense Internal Stimulation

Discover how to choose the best G-spot toys for targeted pleasure, expert tips, and top toy recommendations for every experience level.

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