I was able to make an autistic teachable moment today. On my favorite YouTube vegan cooking channel, someone made a comment. They explained that they have to mute the sound for all of that channel’s videos because the cooking prep sounds are overwhelming. They even apologized for this. I adore the channel creator, but her response was to thank for their honesty.

We shouldn’t have to apologize for our needs, and so this wasn’t honesty. I was able to raise sensory sensitivity in the autistic experience and what it might involve.

I hope this might’ve been a small step in educating on our lived experience.

@autistics #ActuallyAutistic #SensorySensitivity #TeachableMoment

Hey fellow autistics (& Co) - general curiosity / discussion question:
Do you have a sensory (or "experiential") sensitivity that might be considered generally innocuous or at least tolerable up to a certain point, but ANYTHING above absolute zero has your hackles up? Just nope, shut it down, I cannot be around / experience that because it shuts my brain down.

Mine is whistling. Tuneless whistling is torture, but honestly even someone "good" at it, whistling a recognizable tune, has me like a cat with its fur stroked the wrong way. Instant tension and irritation flooding through my body, physically in fight mode and mentally in freeze / shutdown. It's a disruption / jamming signal on all my internal frequencies.

I think it's because I've always been able to hear higher frequencies and pitches - the vague electronic / electric squealing or whining in the office that no one else can hear but is drilling into my brain and giving me a headache. And while whistling might not be quite as piercingly high-pitched, it's approaching it AND it's a lot LOUDER than those "white noises" you feel more than hear, so somehow it's even WORSE and it really physically hurts me but I can't be the jerk who says, "hey can you knock off being cheerful and whistling a tune? it's causing me pain and mental distress" so I suffer in agitated, disregulated silence.


#Autism #autistic #adhd #audhd #sensory-issues #sensory-sensitivity #just-little-quirks #that-ruin-our-day

“Eat a healthy diet”

This sounds very reasonable and wise. And I'm sure that many people have no issues at all to eat all the "good and healthy" things that provide you with all your supplementary needs. But... I am definitely not one of those people! I have many issues when it comes to food. Smell, taste, the "feeling" of textures in my mouth... Sometimes things just smell amazing but when I put it in my mouth... A big gagging "nope!" happens and I have to spit it out again. Apparently, this is something that affects more NeuroSpicy 🌶️ people. When I looked it up, it even has a name: sensory sensitivity or oral/tactile defensiveness. It’s not about being picky or dramatic — it’s a neurological difference in how the brain processes sensory input like texture, temperature, or mouthfeel. So I guess it's definitely not just me dealing with this, and I know that I have tried so many things. But in the end, some of the more important vitamins and minerals, I need to get from supplements in order to get them at all. And there should be no shame in that. But it can be hard to read those warnings on the pill bottles, that the supplements can't replace a healthy diet. Because it makes me feel like I am not doing my best to eat properly and responsebly. […]

https://cynnisblog.wordpress.com/2025/11/29/eat-a-healthy-diet/

World is burning down and there's a major crisis? Got it I'm on it let's work out a plan

Wife suddenly screaming because she was laying down on a USB cord and I pulled on it and she didn't know what it was? I am screaming and shaking and putting my hands on my ears and in drastic amounts of pain and terrified

Really don't understand how it works sometimes

(Sorry hun!)

#actuallyautistic #ActuallyADHD #sensorysensitivity #whoops

If you’re #ActuallyAutistic (or otherwise experience #SensorySensitivity ) and also enjoy #knitting , I would love to hear your recommendations for the most touch friendly yarn you can think of.

I’m going to be knitting something that’s going to be in contact with my skin for long periods of time, so I’m looking for the least aggravating option possible. It doesn’t necessarily need to be cheap (it’s only for a hat so I won’t need to buy a lot of it) strokability is the key factor.

TYIA

Lotion recommendations pls

https://feddit.online/post/342663

Lotion recommendations pls

I've always hated lotion because it feels greasy, dirty, and gets stuck to things. It's like being permanently wet. But I need some because I am …

Trying to suss out if this is a me thing that I should maybe mention to my doctor or if it's just part of the panoply of possible sensory issues we neurospicy people can experience.

My left shoulder blade is extremely sensitive to pressure. I can lay on my back in bed no problem, but if I lean against the back of my chair just so, or if my husband puts his hand there, even gently, it can lead to discomfort and then pain. (This has sadly cut short many an otherwise lovely cuddle session.)

Does anyone else have a remotely similar issue?

@actuallyadhd

#ADHD #ActuallyADHD #Tourette #TouretteSyndrome #NeuroDivergent #NeuroSpicy #SensorySensitivity #SensorySensitivities #SensoryIssues

Hello! This is a post aimed at people whose tongues get burned by mainstream toothpaste.

Can you recommend a toothpaste that doesn't burn your tongue AND that contains fluoride?

Bonus points if it's available in the UK, but it's not a requirement!

(I'm currently using OHP1450 and it's okay - I don't know if that means anything to anyone? But even that still burns my tongue sometimes.)

I don't think it's the mintiness that burns my tongue. I think it must be some other ingredient, and I'm thinking maybe SLS? But I'm not really sure.

#ActuallyAutistic #SensorySensitivity

The dishwasher is on in the next door and I can feel the vibrations through the couch and I can hear the hum. It is driving me mad.

#Autistic
#SensorySensitivity.

Got my #LoopEarPlugs I'm excited to try them out at the office but also other loud venues or places I should be wearing earplugs 🔉 They're the switch type, so I can adjust them. They fit well, like a good pair of ear buds

#ActuallyAutistic #SensorySensitivity