When I’m overwhelmed, I imagine I’m talking to my 5-year-old self. I wouldn't yell at a scared kid, so I won't yell at myself. "It's okay. We will get through this." 🧸 #InnerChild #SelfSoothing #BipolarLife

Read today’s Club post: https://open.substack.com/pub/speakingbipolar/p/speak-softly-to-the-scared-kid-inside?r=y4fp9&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

Last night, for the first time, I was able to navigate a trigger with self soothing and self compassion. It wasn't easy. But neither is being triggered and ending up a shaking, sobbing mess. I'd rather be tired from the former than the latter!

It's taken a lot of therapy, time, and effort to get here. And there's no guarantee I'll be able to do it the next time. But I will be able to do it again some time, and it will be easier. And easier again after that. It's possible I may always experience triggers, but I can, and have, shown myself that it's possible to live with them instead of being controlled by them.

It sucks we have to work so hard to fix what others fucked up for us. It's not fair. But, it is worth it. It really is 🫂💜

#Trauma #CPTSD #Therapy #MentalHealth #SwearingHeals #PracticeMakesBetter #SelfCompassion #SelfSoothing
“Tell me about despair”: the power of poetry for self-soothing - ACRLog

When I tell someone that I’m a librarian, I often either get a joke about the Dewey Decimal System, or a sighed-out exclamation along the lines of, “Oh, I wish that I could spend all day reading books!” in response. To the former, I usually mumble something about LOC and move on, to the latter When I tell someone that I’m a librarian, I often either get a joke about the Dewey Decimal System, or a sighed-out exclamation along the lines of, “Oh, I wish that I could spend all day reading books!” in response. To the former, I usually mumble something about LOC and move on, to the latter

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Woke up feeling triggered and disregulated this morning (I know why), so upping the self-care today:

- did a self-soothing meditation
- put on the fairy lights
- put an item associated with comfort on my desk
- will light a scented candle because I find aromatherapy helpful (I know not everyone does).

#trauma #traumarecovery #dustegulation #selfsoothing

Built and wired in a new station in my studio this weekend. I love it sohohoho muhuhuch 😭 (Those are tears of joy.)

#ElectronicMusic #SelfSoothing

I have to meet at least 6 new people today.
I am giving myself pep talks because the social anxiety has crept in.
I'll get through this discomfort(repeating this personal mantra).
Sweaty hands, shaky nerves & all, it shall pass.

#AuDHD #SocialAnxiety #SelfSoothing

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A whole lot of things are going badly wrong in my life at the moment, so I will write about three good things that happened today in an attempt to cheer myself up:

- My son sat the ACT test today and felt that he had done well.

- I was in a library earlier where I had the pleasure of watching the Music Core stages of Kep1er -- Shooting Star, Nicole -- 5!6!7!8!, and ARTMS -- Virtual Angel. All three songs hit the spot with me, and today I was particularly taken with the Kep1ian audience's vocal support, Nicole's disco strings and male dancer, and Choerry's mauve minidress and silver stiletto heeled boots.

- I was fascinated to learn more about C17 French political thinker and librarian Gabriel Naudé. I am both attracted and repelled by what I have read of his ideas, so I am keen to learn more.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gabriel_Naud%C3%A9

#SelfSoothing #Kpop #FrenchHistory #IntellectualHistory

Gabriel Naudé - Wikipedia

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