Ontario court extends Hudson’s Bay’s reprieve from creditors
An Ontario court has extended the reprieve Hudson’s Bay has from creditors after Judge Jessica Kimmel pushed the end of the collapsed retailer’s stay from March 31 to June 30.
#Canada #Creditors #HudsonsBay #Ontariocourt
https://globalnews.ca/news/11737864/hudsons-bay-creditors-extension/
Ontario court extends Hudson’s Bay’s reprieve from creditors
An Ontario court has extended the reprieve Hudson’s Bay has from creditors after Judge Jessica Kimmel pushed the end of the collapsed retailer’s stay from March 31 to June 30.
#Canada #Creditors #HudsonsBay #Ontariocourt
https://globalnews.ca/news/11737864/hudsons-bay-creditors-extension/
Ontario court extends Hudson’s Bay’s reprieve from creditors
An Ontario court has extended the reprieve Hudson’s Bay has from creditors after Judge Jessica Kimmel pushed the end of the collapsed retailer’s stay from March 31 to June 30.
#Canada #Creditors #HudsonsBay #Ontariocourt
https://globalnews.ca/news/11737864/hudsons-bay-creditors-extension/

Pentagon chief Hegseth announces reprieve for Scouts over DEI : NPR

https://misryoum.com/us/us-news/pentagon-chief-hegseth-announces-reprieve-for-scouts-over/

Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth, in a video posted to X, put Scouting America "on notice" and said the Pentagon will evaluate its relationship with the organization in six months. X video by @SecWar / screengrab by NPR hide caption...

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A rant about feelings

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A rant about feelings - Lemmy.zip

Starting about 4 years ago, my wife and I started trying to have a baby. Now, 4 years later, I am turning 40 this year and she is turning 43. We still do not have a baby and it feels like the window is closing with each day. About 2 years ago we started going to a doctor specialized in fertility issues, and we went through various procedures which culminated in starting IVF treatment. Up until now, we’ve done 2 IVF rounds and we are preparing for the 3rd one. I’ve talked with my wife and we agreed that this will be the last round of IVF we will be doing, no matter the result. If it’s successful, all the better, if not, we will look into other options. Those options are using donated eggs or adoption. Going through this process has me feeling all kinds of things, but the most prevalent feelings are resentment and feeling powerless. I feel resentment mostly because of the IVF treatment. It weighs on me that the process of becoming a father, for me, means poking my wife with needles. I know that I am fortunate to live in a time where this is even possible. I also know that I am fortunate to live in Romania and have access to a state-run fertility clinic which is about 3 to 4 times cheaper than private ones. Even so, the medicine and procedures are still expensive. I’ve spent around 20% of my annual income on these 2 cycles. I know that I am fortunate that we can afford it and it does not impact our lifestyle that much. Knowing that we are in a fortunate position makes me feel shitty because I feel resentment. We have all these advantages and yet, here I am, not appreciating what we have and resenting the process. All this resentment feeds that feeling of powerlessness. I poke my wife with needles and she has to go through all the hormonal issues, pain from being poked too much, bruising, and all the other side effects of the treatment by herself. All I can do is hug her, tell her I love her and be there when she needs me. It feels insufficient and I resent that I feel so powerless. I wish I could speak to my wife about how I feel but how, in good conscience, can I tell her this when she is actually going through psychological AND physical torment? Can I burden her with my feelings? I wish I could speak with friends about it but my best friend and his wife are going through the same thing, with the addition that their medical situation makes the success rate even lower than ours. How can I go complain about our situation when they are going through it with even lower chances? My other friends either don’t want kids or already have kids. If I have to hear “you need to relax, take a vacation and it will happen for you” one more time, I will snap. It feels so tone deaf, like our problems, all my feelings are caused by not taking a vacation. It drives me nuts. Now that we are preparing to start this 3rd cycle, I’ve also thought about what we will do after, if this does not work. One of the options is to use donated eggs. The thought of my wife carrying a child that is genetically mine but not hers feels so damn unnatural to me. I can’t wrap my mind around that. Adoption is the other option but it raises all kinds of questions for me. What if we foster a child, we get attached, but then we get declined in the adoption process? Or the even worse situation, where one of us gets attached and the other does not, what do we do then? If my wife bonds with a child but I don’t, can I decline her happiness of being a mother? Should I neglect my feelings so that she is happy? Of course that applies the other way around, if I am the one bonding and she does not, should I force the issue and have her raise a child she does not care for? I’ve also been thinking about the idea of being a father and if I would be fit as a parent. My relationship with my parents is almost non-existent and I’m wondering if history would repeat itself and decades later I would be on the other side, where my child would not want to talk to me. I am writing all of this because I need to vent. I’ve been thinking about this for a while and it’s been giving me anxiety. I have to deal with these feelings so I can be there for my wife and support her the best I can. I’ve noticed that in the previous IVF cycles, I became easily annoyed. Reflecting on that I realized it was because I felt powerless. It’s like I am an RPG character that wandered into a zone that he is underleveled for. I want to make peace with myself and do better by my wife.

A quotation from Euripides

CREON:                              Now stay here, if you must,
This one day. You can hardly in one day accomplish
What I am afraid of.
 
[ΚΡΈΩΝ: νῦν δ᾽, εἰ μένειν δεῖ, μίμν᾽ ἐφ᾽ ἡμέραν μίαν:
οὐ γάρ τι δράσεις δεινὸν ὧν φόβος μ᾽ ἔχει. ]

Euripides (485?-406? BC) Greek tragic dramatist
Medea [Μήδεια], l. 355ff (431 BC)[tr. Vellacott (1963)]

More info about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/euripides/81204/

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Euripides - Medea [Μήδεια], l. 355ff (431 BC)[tr. Vellacott (1963)] | WIST Quotations

CREON:Now stay here, if you must, This one day. You can hardly in one day accomplish What I am afraid of. [ΚΡΈΩΝ: νῦν δ᾽, εἰ μένειν δεῖ, μίμν᾽ ἐφ᾽ ἡμέραν μίαν: οὐ γάρ τι δράσεις δεινὸν ὧν φόβος μ᾽ ἔχει. ] Creon lets Medea stay one more day before her…

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Injustice

Life and death in the courtrooms of America

It sometimes comes as a shock to people that the only country in the Americas which still has the death penalty is the USA.  It is especially favoured by the southern states such as Louisiana, Texas and Florida and we have on many occasions on this blog mentioned particular cases where the wrong man is convicted of a crime or where the evidence is at best doubtful.

Our view here in the UK of the justice system in America is heavily conditioned by Hollywood films, on screen or on TV, which give a highly biased view of the real life situation.  In these depictions, an innocent man or woman has been wrongfully arrested.  Clean cut lawyers appear for the defendant and there is a tense meeting in the DA’s office.  At some point, the defence (or defense if you’re reading this in the USA) lawyer says ‘we’re outa here’ and they all sweep out.  Hearings, such as a Grand Jury happen as if by magic and subsequent court appearances take place soon after.  Few episodes can go by without a lawyer saying someone’s ‘Miranda rights have been infringed’ and more people sweep out.  Everyone is dedicated to securing justice with the exception of one individual (a witness, police officer or someone needed for the plot) who is found out at the end.  More clean cut young people find a tiny and crucial piece of evidence and this is sufficient to set a defendant free, often in the last minute or so of the trial.  The overall impression is of a system that works – albeit uncertainly at times – with the good guy getting off at the end.

If you read Clive Stafford Smith’s book Injustice * you will find that these Hollywood stories are for many in the States, fiction.  Clive has spent many years in the USA helping people on death row, the majority of whom should not be there.  The book is about one individual, Krishna Maharaj (pictured), who was on death row in Florida for 28 years before being released.  It is a truly astonishing book with 110 pages of detailed notes and describes the dysfunctional legal system in states such a Florida.

The problem – bizarrely – is that an innocent man or woman is often more at risk that someone who is guilty.  Innocent people believe, often wrongly to their cost, that they don’t have to prove anything because they are innocent.  There cannot be any evidence to prove they did it because they didn’t.  They also think that the justice system is unbiased and the truth will out eventually, a ‘touching faith’ as Clive describes it.

The book explores these issues in great detail.  America elects its law officers and so there is great pressure to convict to prove to the electorate that you are ‘tough on crime’.  Sentencing people to death is a great way to prove this.  Unlike recent changes to the justice system in the UK, the defence has no right of disclosure.  So the police need only present evidence allegedly proving guilt, and not reveal evidence that proves the defendant innocent.  This practice was also commonplace in the UK before new rules were introduced following some high profile injustices were discovered.  In Florida, because of the enormous amount of money flooding in to the state from the drug barons, corruption is rife throughout the justice system.  Amazingly, the judge himself in Krishna’s trial was arrested for bribery and corruption after three days of hearings.  The police are often themselves involved in the drugs trade.

So if the judge was arrested, then surely the trial should start afresh?  No, because defence lawyers are paid so little and on a block fee basis, to start again is something they cannot afford, so they just ploughed on with a new judge.   The quality of defence lawyers is frequently poor and they fail to cross-examine properly, call relevant witnesses or even to meet the defendant that often.  The problem here is that if through incompetence or otherwise the defence lawyer does not raise the issues at trial, then appeal courts will rule matters to be ‘procedurally barred’ subsequently.

So alibis are not called, forensic evidence not challenged, police witnesses’ changes in evidence not challenged and so on and so on.  The result was an innocent man narrowly escaping death row for a crime he did not commit and which was committed it was eventually discovered, by someone acting for a drug cartel.  The man murdered was ‘skimming’ drug profits.  Errors are so great and so frequent that justice would better be served if it was done on the basis of a coin toss.  Fewer would be executed on this basis.

Clive Stafford Smith is an extraordinary lawyer but he is also a great story teller and this account of Kris Maharaj death row case is a powerful thriller beautifully told.  Helena Kennedy QC [senior lawyer in the UK]

Passionate and Humane Mail on Sunday

This is a highly recommended book for anyone interested in the justice system.  If you have written letters to governors and others in the States it will explain a lot.  Clive Stafford Smith was the founder of Reprieve.

A story about the case in Miami Herald

*Injustice by Clive Stafford Smith, Vintage books, 2013

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No reprieve for Nicola Willis expected from Treasury forecasts, as return to surplus in question

It has been difficult for Willis to completely rein in spending at a time the economy has needed…
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https://www.newsbeep.com/310050/

İngiltere'de "ırkçı uygulama": Küresel bir istisna haline geldi: İngiltere'de Runnymede Trust ve Reprieve tarafından hazırlanan raporda, çarpıcı veriler yer aldı. Buna göre İngiltere, vatandaşlığı geniş ölçüde iptal eden tek G20 ülkesi konumunda. 2010'dan beri kamu yararı gerekçesiyle 200'den fazla kişinin vatandaşlığının geri alındığı bildirildi.

Diğer ülkelere kıyasla İngiltere… https://www.eshahaber.com.tr/haber/ingiltere-de-irkci-uygulama-kuresel-bir-istisna-haline-geldi-278733.html?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon EshaHaber.com.tr #İngiltere #ırkçılık #vatandaşlık #RunnymedeTrust #Reprieve

Red signs you've noticed in partners that made you want to slap your past self?

https://lemmy.zip/post/50080041

Red signs you've noticed in partners that made you want to slap your past self? - Lemmy.zip

I have a good one, just popped back into my head and inspired this. We were watching a movie where a wife cheated on her husband and I say “Damn, what a horrible person”. And she just loses it, going off on how “that’s such a misogynistic thing to say” “how do you know what SHE was going through” etc. I tried to laugh it off because she was hot and it was early in the relationship and I’m stupid but I’ll give you one guess why that particular relationship ended lol. Anyone else have some relationship red flags, major or subtle, that just made you want to go back and slap your past self?