How often have you heard someone is a good listener? Often enough to wonder what the secret is. Like so many things it is the reciprocal act of actually being interested & listening. So easy it's difficult.

#talent #skill #learn #reciprocate #part #secret #be #listen

Life is ebb & flow. Every so often we might find we are taking more than we are giving. That is the nature of need as well as giving. It might be wise to see if our patterns shift or change, & we find we are taking a lot without necessarily reciprocating.

#give #take #reciprocate #kind #offer

Today's card is Queen of Cups.

There are so many ways of showing we care, but if our efforts aren't appreciated then maybe we should divert our attention elsewhere.

#care #appreciate  #attention #reciprocate 

#tarot #tarotmessage #LauraJK32 

^v^ when this Gryph the Gryphon ever gives the Gryphon the Gryphons' gifts . this means Gryph the Gryphon likes this Gryphon rly very much ^V^

^v^ n this means Gryph the Gryphon gives out the gifts to the Gryphons like always ^V^

^v^ n the other Gryphons can give the Gryphons' gifts to Gryph the Gryphon too ^V^

#Gryphons #gift #nice #surprise #reciprocate

Hot guy pings me in #Scruff. Seems to be from out of town. No pic. Profile says #bottom, #submissive , #versatile. Pass, for play anyway.

But he pings me. Sends a pic. He’s stunning. I mean like WOW! 😍😍 We swap info. He asks what I’m into and I drop my usual litany of saved stuff since I bore of typing it and using time to handle known stuff — see pinned posts. Here’s the menu, dude.

What gets him off? Flip fucking, and heavy versatile stuff. I’m not his person. I’m not missing out being a #bottom. I enjoy #servicing and being used. It’s what #gratifies me. There are some things I #reciprocate on but top #energy is not present. Don’t expect that.

Why is it somehow reasonable to expect bottoms to do #flip? Are we just undiscovered tops? Is #desperation supposed to be sufficient to do things we don’t enjoy?

#InternetMen #confused #respect #boundaries #communication

Gryph the Gryphon's the rly nice Gryphon . n all the other Gryphons can be rly nice too . esp for Gryph bc Gryph's so nice ^V^

#niceGryphons #reciprocate