Rest as Resistance: Why Downtime Is a Radical Act

https://dreamspacestudio.net/rest-as-resistance-why-downtime-is-a-radical-act/

rest

You’ve done enough

Go on

rest

so that you may

go on

#FoundPoetry #Pacing
#Fatigue #ChronicFatigue
#iamhere #iSeeYou
#StillCoviding
#MarathonNotSprint
#RadicalRest
#LongCovidAwareness
#LiveToSeeAnotherDay

yesterday was emotionally exhausting, and there is much more work to do.

#draweveryday #drawing #draw #hedgehog #rest #radicalrest #selfcare

Disabled people rely on social media for connection & companionship.

We might be housebound or bedbound & often have no one in real life who “gets it”

The unrelenting negativity of the news cycle takes a toll on us

If we unplug, we lose our support network. If we come online, we lose our spoons

I’m working on an article about how we can protect our online spaces (and spoons!) in the era of Trump.

How we can find ways to unplug without losing vital community.

Discover strategies for supporting one another in resistance efforts so we can all take breaks when we need to.

I’m working on ideas for resisting, networking & community building in ways that spare as many spoons as possible.

Ways to help people leave toxic social media and find safer online spaces.

I’m thinking about the role we can play in protests & resistance and how to get organizers to include us.

My own spoon deficit is slowing me down, so in the interim I’m going to share some articles from the Archive that I hope can help people rest, recharge and prepare to fight another day.

The first is about throwing away the guilt & harmful inner monologues and learning radical rest 🧵 1/3

https://www.disabledginger.com/p/its-time-to-throw-away-the-coulda

#uspoli #resist #rest #selfcare #disability #ableism #chronicillness #communitycare #fascism #RadicalRest

This week’s article was a tough one - mainly because I’ve been in a horrific and unrelenting flare that’s prohibited me from writing about what I wanted to tackle.

I’ve had to put multiple pieces on the back burner because my brain fog and other symptoms were too severe.

My inner monologue turned very cruel - constantly berating and gaslighting myself for being unable to get the articles done.

It’s hardly a surprise - because we aren’t taught to rest. We’re taught to push. To hide our pain. To say we’re “fine” and smile no matter how much we’re suffering.

We’re taught that worth is tied to economic contribution. That we’re cogs in the wheel of capitalism and that if we aren’t contributing we have no value.

As a result we play through the pain. We ignore what our bodies need because we don’t know how to truly rest.

We are overwhelmed with the “coulda woulda shouldas”… three of the most damaging words to someone living with chronic illness.

When you’re disabled - you can’t push as hard as other people can. You need to learn radical rest.

My own war with the ‘coulda, woulda, shouldas’ looks a lot like this:

😞 You coulda had a better day today if you had just been smarter yesterday

😞 You woulda been more productive if you had just done this differently

😞 You shoulda seen this coming. You’re stupid. Why didn’t you prepare better?

😞 You coulda stopped this if you only tried harder

😞You woulda had your article published if you focused more
You SHOULDA known better. When will you learn?

My article is about how to recognize the warning signs of an impending crash, learn radical rest and most importantly - throw the “coulda woulda shouldas” away once and for all.

https://www.disabledginger.com/p/its-time-to-throw-away-the-coulda

#chronicillness #disability #disabilityrights #spoonie #pem #brainfog #radicalrest #pots #mcas #Dysautonomia
#mecfs #longcovid #rest #gaslighting