What Can Popular Personality Tests Really Tell Us? - The Clairame Magazine

We love labels and mental shortcuts—to an extent. There is an irresistible comfort in that promise to explain why we do what we do. From corporate boardrooms, classrooms, to therapy offices, personality frameworks have become ubiquitous tools for self-understanding. Millions have taken tests like the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator or consult their Enneagram number, seeking insight […]

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Good persuasion is about the audience, not you. Adapting shows respect, not weakness.

Avoid common mistakes. Don’t use stories with data driven people. Don’t hide your best evidence.

Try writing for the toughest critic. Imagine their questions and answer them upfront.

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🧠You are not broken. You have just been letting your past run the show. The moment you own it, everything changes.

O.W.N YOUR SH!T, by Dr. Renee Brooks LPC-S

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And always track your results. Check if your hunches are right.

One practical tip: before a negotiation, try to predict two or three objections. This forces you to think about the other person’s perspective. It sharpens your instincts for the real conversation.

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Remember: emotion comes before logic. People connect first, then justify.

Always make your audience the hero. If you make yourself the hero, the story won’t resonate.

You’ll know it worked if people are more engaged or agreeable than when you just use data.

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Try using one strong image that sums up your whole idea. Put it at the top of your agenda or slide. It keeps everyone focused on what matters.

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Avoid common mistakes. Using “you” statements can sound accusatory. The feedback sandwich—criticism between compliments—often creates distrust.

When you receive feedback, your only job is to listen. Say “thank you for this perspective.” You can decide what to do with it later.

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