I'm experiencing the first truly unhinged period of #perimenopause. Three days of spotting, then nothing for three days. Two days of spotting, then nothing for EIGHT days. Now it's started up again. WTF. 😔

It could just stop. Permanently. I wouldn't mind.

Any #perimenopause folks out there? I feel like I’m dying and losing my mind, and I think I need some connections and community to help me navigate this. I’d love to learn from others’ experiences and know I’m not alone (or if in fact I am just dying and losing my mind) šŸ’œ

#WomensHealth

Ridiculous #aging #middleaged #perimenopause experience today:

For my entire adult life I've had this one spot on my chin where a single dark, coarse hair will grow in from time to time. Not an uncommon experience; a lot of women have to pluck a few hairs here and there to maintain the illusion of smooth, perfect skin.

Discovered this morning that the hair had grown back, but now it's gone white -- and I only noticed it because I could feel it when touching my face, but couldn't easily see it any more against my pale skin.

So, my first white hair.... and it's on my chin.

I guess this is 40?

könnten sich bitte einfach mal alle zur #perimenopause weiterbilden, statt uns ständig zu verarschen, ich habe keine zeit für diese inkompetenz ey
im gesundheitssystem als cis frau unterwegs zu sein, bedeutet entweder deine symptome sind hormonbedingt wenn sie es eigentlich nicht sind und WENN sie es sind, kann das ja nicht sein, ā€žweil sie sind ja noch so jung!ā€ šŸ–•šŸ»#perimenopause
immer wieder toll, wenn du schon zur fachƤrztlichen sprechstunde gehst und dein arzt noch nicht mal das wort #perimenopause kennt (in einem fachbereich wo das absolut relevant ist, meine fresse). kƶnnte schon wieder alles anzünden šŸ”„
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Stupid #perimenopause, making me so angry I start to cry where my boss notices. Over something that would have been a minute of annoyed cursing (the witchy kind) just a year ago.
Being a woman sucks. šŸ™ˆ

And like, it sorta seems like that 7-10 median shift isn’t that big. But it FEELS huge. Instead of being like, ā€œoh, yeah, that’s this week’s migraineā€, or sometimes being unlucky enough to get two, I sometimes go a whole glorious week or more at a time with nothing.

The bigger drop is obviously the pain shift — feeling a 5-8 is basically ā€œI’m fucked until the drug cocktail kicks inā€. Feeling a 1 is like ā€œoh, hey, I guess I’ve got an annoying headacheā€.

Anyhow, the estrogen patches haven’t been perfect - I’ve had problems with the first brand falling off and gumming up clothing with the adhesive, and I’m now switching to a brand that’s apparently better at sticking but requires changing 2x a week. But I’ll take the tradeoffs.

#menopause #perimenopause