A quotation from Olivia Butler

I wanted to understand the lies that people have to tell themselves when they either quietly or joyfully watch their neighbors ruined, spirited away, killed. Different versions of this horror have happened again and again in history. They’re still happening in places like Rwanda, Bosnia, Kosovo and East Timor, wherever one group of people permits its leaders to convince them that for their own protection, for the safety of their families and the security of their country, they must get their enemies, those alien others who until now were their neighbors.

Octavia Butler (1947-2006) American writer
Essay (2000-05), “A Few Rules for Predicting the Future,” Essence Magazine

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I wanted to understand the lies that people have to tell themselves when they either quietly or joyfully watch their neighbors ruined, spirited away, killed. Different versions of this horror have happened again and again in history. They’re still happening in places like Rwanda, Bosnia, Kosovo and East Timor, wherever…

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Others, Otherness, Othering

Who are the others who live in the townships just up the road? Who are they who buy luxury penthouses jutting over the ocean? Who are the others who crawl the water pipes at night? Who are they who sip champagne from a five-star hotel patio at sunset? Who are the others who lick takeaway containers thrown in gutters? Who are they who order designer sneakers from abroad?

I have seen others with large kind eyes, wild demented eyes and skillfully made-up eyes. I have seen others with scars and rashes who scramble into bushes at dusk. And those who saunter, hips swinging, heels clicking, along main road pavements just for show.

Who are the others? Why are some people ‘the other’ who eat from trash bins? Why are some people the ‘others’ who fly in jet planes to luxury destinations? Why was I born me, he was born he and she was born she? Why is my skin light and your skin dark?

The Other and Apartheid

I remember growing up during Apartheid. I could roam freely, safely, across the open veld, into the huge tunnels under the main roads, along the railway lines and into the pine forests. A Zulu woman worked for us, cleaning our house. She lived over the hill, in a completely different vicinity. Flora was ‘the other’, a stranger in our home. I was so naïve.  

The Ethics Centre explains it like this:

The Other is a term used to capture the ways other people are different from us. It’s also used to describe the people who we keep distant from us because we decide they’re not like us. The process of Othering occurs when we turn fellow humans into abstract entities we can distance ourselves from or treat as less-than-human.

For Flora, we were ‘the other’, too. We had a large house with a large garden, hot water, electricity and cupboards full of food. During Apartheid, the process of “Othering” was exacerbated by a system that classified all South Africans into four racial categories: White, Black (Bantu), Coloured (mixed race), and Indian/Asian. Here, the Other was treated as “not me” or “not us,” often viewed as inferior or threatening to the in-group.

Opposites Attract

Zygmunt Bauman suggests that the idea of otherness is essential to the way in which society creates categories of identity. He argues that identities are structured as a division or contrast between two things that are represented as being entirely different.

‘Woman is the other of man, animal is the other of human, stranger is the other of native, abnormality the other of norm, deviation the other of law- abiding, illness the other of health, insanity the other of reason, lay public the other of the expert, foreigner the other of state subject, enemy the other of friend. ‘ 

This reminds me of the Yin and Yang of life. The incessant attraction and repulsion of forces we live with every minute of every day. Think about black and white, male and female, day and night, summer and winter, high tide and low tide, fatigue and energy, sun and moon. One cannot exist without the other. They flow in and out, infinitely, from soft to hard, the calm to the storm. Without depression, we would not experience joy.

Think about it:  “No matter what you do, there will always be a dark and light side to it. The hard truth is that you are only pretty because someone else is considered ugly, you’re only rich because someone else is poor. Because without the opposites, there is nothing that can establish your hierarchy in this world. At any time, the black can become white and the white can become black. Hope can become despair and despair can become hope. Just like how if you keep traveling east, you will eventually arrive at the west. “

Thinking about Others

Philosopher Simone de Beauvoir believed that “Otherness is a basic category of human thought”. You are who you think you are. When you compare yourself to others, you are entrenching your ego in a world full of diverse humans. Thoughts and opinions can make or break us. Yet, they are far from real. Think about the last time you travelled to another country. You were a foreigner entering someone else’s native land – you saw them as ‘the other’, and they perceived you as ‘the other’. Think about how wars start and how couples divorce.

As soon as we think about what something is, we think about the opposite – the Other. We tend to place ourselves in context according to those around us. This helps us to define who we are at any given time. However, natural or not, Othering isn’t a neutral process – it tends to lead to the mistreatment of the people we decide are Other.

We see it playing out every day in our worlds – your world, my world, the others’ worlds. On the bus, the train, in the traffic and in the coffee shops. On the sidewalks, at work and in the gym. Keep it to yourself if you regard someone as different from you. Count your blessings that you are indeed different! Amen!

Who ARE the Others?

I know people who live in the townships just up the road. I don’t know people who buy luxury penthouses jutting over the ocean. I often see people who lick takeaway containers thrown in gutters? And I see people wearing designer sneakers from abroad. Like me, you too have seen it all. Maybe I have passed you on my morning walks? Maybe you have met my eye in your rags, or was that you in the Porsche spinning by?

Have you ever wondered why you are you and not me? When I see green do you see it too or do you see blue? Have you ever noticed how many of ‘you’ there are? The ‘you’ that greets your mother, the ‘you’ that drinks coffee with your friends and the ‘you’ that meets with colleagues in a boardroom. So, who ARE the others?

The pursuit of otherness, the sense that we are somehow different than our brothers and sisters, no matter where we find them, allows for all the other great evils: racism, sexism, homophobia, violence against gay people and against women – Anna Quindlen

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Raised evangelical fundy here... godless heathen now ... read way too many books..

But yeah as a little kid it always puzzled me why there were so many different variants within 'christianity' , Methodists, free methodists, baptists, catholics, Lutherans, Mormons, Episcopalian..... and then of course the answer is that they all 'don't have it quite right' and only our Sect/Denomination/Cult has it right..

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Power Structure.

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Race, memory, and conditional belonging in Quebec.

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Who Knows? [Sermon]

The story of the people of Israel moving from Egypt to the promised land is pretty well-known. After they reached the promised land, each tribe settled in a different area.

After King Solomon died, his son Rehoboam became king and required high taxes and forced labor from the people. The ten northern tribes rebelled and formed the northern kingdom of Israel, under a new king Jeroboam. Judah and Benjamin remained as the southern kingdom of Judah.

Later, the Assyrians attacked and conquered the northern kingdom of Israel and relocated most of the population. The Assyrians adopted the religion of the land and worshiped the god of the Israelites, and married and had children with the remaining people of Israel.

These are the Samaritans.

So to the people of Judah, or Judea, the Samaritans are the descendants of rebels and invaders.

They’re not well-regarded.

This is why Jesus uses a Samaritan as the person who cares for the man who was robbed and beaten in the parable we call The Good Samaritan.

And it’s why today’s story is about a Samaritan Woman.

Let’s go to God in prayer.

God of wisdom, may the words that I speak, and the ways they are received by each of our hearts and minds, to help us to continue to grow into the people, and the church, that you have dreamed us to be.

Amen.

Women did not have high status in Judah during the time of Jesus. To be fair, women did not have high status in much of the world during the time of Jesus. And there were rules for men and women to be separated , and not just in sports and bathrooms. So when Jesus was alone and speaking with a lone woman, this was not a good look.

Further, this woman was a Samaritan: a descendant of the rebellious northern tribes and the Assyrians who invaded them.

So it makes sense that the woman says

“How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?”

She’s a woman. She’s from a people that the Jews look down on.

She also says the well was from their ancestor Jacob. If you remember the stories from the Hebrew scriptures, Jacob was called Israel by God. This well was created before the captivity in Egypt, before Joseph was sold into slavery and ended up in Israel, before he invited his family to live in Egypt during the famine, before Moses led them out of Egypt and back to the Holy Land.

So the well was created by Jacob, or Israel, ancestor of both Samaritans and Jews, long before there were a separate Israel and Judah, and before Samaritans were even a people.

So one unusual part of the story is the interaction of Jesus with a Samaritan woman.

The other unusual part, and the part that often stands out to people, is Jesus’ knowledge of the woman’s life: He knows she had five husbands and was with someone who is not her husband.

How does Jesus know this?

The traditional reasoning is that Jesus is the Son of God and knows all things. That works for a lot of people. Others may look for a more earthly explanation. Maybe he had spoken to someone else about her. Maybe there was some sign in her clothing. Maybe Jesus was actually interested in someone that others would just look past.

The Samaritans asked Jesus to stay with them. He stayed two days, and many Samaritans came to believe.

Why does this story matter today?

We live in California. Until 1848, this was Mexico. That’s why there are so many towns with Spanish names.

The ideology of Manifest Destiny was that the United States should spread across the continent, and led to displacement of indigenous people and the Mexican-American War. This nation killed many people whose ancestors had lived here for thousands of years and drove the survivors onto reservations, and drove many of the Mexican people – themselves various mixes of indigenous, Spanish, and African heritage – south.

The United States – largely the white United States – saw these people as inferior.

Meanwhile, women could not vote, or own property, or in many cases even divorce an abusive husband.

And while we have made some real progress in the nearly two centuries since 1848, we are sliding back toward the idea that a lack of melanin in one’s skin somehow makes one superior to someone with a darker complexion, and that an SRY gene, usually – but not always – on the Y chromosome, makes someone a man, superior to women.

What disturbs me is how often these ideas are put forth by people who call themselves Christian. Followers of Jesus.

What Jesus are they following? Who knows? It’s not the Jesus who spoke with a woman who was a mix of people the Jews considered less-than.

Periodically I mention a cartoonist named David Hayward. He’s a former pastor and draws under the name “The Naked Pastor.”

He has a cartoon where Jesus is carrying a sheep back to the fold.

The other sheep say

Whoa! Whoa! Whoa!

Hold it right there!

That sheep wasn’t lost.

We kicked that sheep out!

And Jesus says

I know.

And I found the sheep.

Repeatedly, Jesus is erasing the lines between people.

David Hayward has a cartoon about that, too.

And people, including people who claim to be following Jesus, keep drawing lines back in.

They don’t seek to know the people they’re keeping out. They don’t want to know their stories. They don’t want to know their struggles.

Most of all, I think they don’t want to know their humanity. Because once we see other people as people, it’s harder to demonize them and make them into scapegoats.

We’ve heard people called criminals and mentally ill. Sometimes people are called animals, or vermin. This is useful. If I can get you to focus on them as an enemy, you may not notice if I am doing something that harms you.

The people coming into our nation, fleeing persecution and poverty, are not the enemy.

The people who were here before our nation conquered the land are not the enemy.

The people whose lives are different from ours are not the enemy, even if we don’t understand their lives.

They are all people. Just as we are people. And if we took the time to get to know people, maybe we would see them as people. Even if she was a mixed-race woman who had five husbands and now is living with a man she is not married to.

Here’s a real challenge for this week:

I would like each of us to find someone we are at least a little uncomfortable with, and ask them about themselves.

Maybe we will ask “how is your life?” or “what would make your life better?” or just “how are you doing?”

Give people a chance to let us understand who they are. And maybe we will see them as more human.

Who knows?

Amen.

Let’s sing CH 351 Fill My Cup, Lord

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*grumbles* in general, when you're upset about wrongs, make a habit of considering the perspective of the VICTIMS, not only the perpetrators. Yes, we need to do something about them. But not by verbally and rhetorically revictimising the victims.

It's like they were cast as non-people by whoever wronged them, and then well meaning people come along and try to oppose the wrongs, while in their minds, the non-people are still non-people. Poor, beautiful, innocent non-people who shouldn't be wronged, but non-people nonetheless.

If you pay attention, you can see this dynamic play out everywhere on basically any topic.

#dehumanisation #othering #SocialJustice #SocialJustice101

A quotation from The Bible

All baptised in Christ, you have all clothed yourselves in Christ, and there are no more distinctions between Jew and Greek, slave and free, male and female, but all of you are one in Christ Jesus.
 
[ὅσοι γὰρ εἰς Χριστὸν ἐβαπτίσθητε, Χριστὸν ἐνεδύσασθε. οὐκ ἔνι Ἰουδαῖος οὐδὲ Ἕλλην, οὐκ ἔνι δοῦλος οὐδὲ ἐλεύθερος, οὐκ ἔνι ἄρσεν καὶ θῆλυ· πάντες γὰρ ὑμεῖς εἷς ἐστε ἐν Χριστῷ Ἰησοῦ.]

The Bible (The New Testament) (AD 1st - 2nd C) Christian sacred scripture
Galatians 3: 27–28 [JB (1966)]

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