#AgeVerification

I've just realised that there's a type of #miscommunication I don't have a name for. In my head it's "Yet another who the heck is this?"
Eg: e-mail that says
"Update to Your Ubisoft Account – Age Verification Requirement to access social features with non-Friends"

I've heard of Ubisoft. Somewhere. But do I care? How do I find our whether I should care? Or is it spam?

It reminds me of buying from EBay, mostly good for me, but I usually can't tie a payment with an order, or a message about delivery with an order. I have to keep guessing.

She Was Missing. She Helped Look for Herself. - Zsolt Zsemba

In 2012, a tourist in Iceland was reported missing and unknowingly joined the search party looking for herself. A true story about identity.

Zsolt Zsemba

She Was Missing. She Helped Look for Herself.

An Icelandic tourist joined her own search party

Ok, I saw this, and I had to share! This is not a metaphor. This is not a parable. This is not a motivational story dressed up as a true event.

This actually happened.

In August 2012, a tourist near Eldgjá Canyon in Iceland was reported missing, prompting police and volunteers to search for her, aided by a Coast Guard helicopter. The missing woman was described as Asian, about 160 centimeters tall, and wearing dark clothing. However, she was not actually missing; she was present at the scene, helping with the search. The misunderstanding arose because she had changed her clothes after momentarily stepping away from her bus tour group.

Different jacket. Different look.

When she got back on the bus, her fellow tourists did not recognize her. It was as if she had transformed during her brief absence, her presence somehow altered in the eyes of those around her. She had stepped out for just a moment to enjoy the vibrant market, to indulge in the local cuisine and immerse herself in the culture, yet upon returning, she found herself estranged from her own group.

They assumed she was someone else, perhaps another traveller among the countless faces they had seen throughout the day. The bus continued to be a tableau of camaraderie and shared experiences, yet she felt a growing disconnection. Her heart raced as she realized the implications of being overlooked—she was not just another tourist; she was lost in a web of mistaken identities and assumptions.

As the bus moved on and she was not accounted for, the reality of her situation set in. The driver, alert and responsible, recognized that one individual was missing. Based on the description given earlier that day, of a woman with a red scarf and a blue jacket, he reported her missing to the tour coordinators, initiating a panic she had never anticipated.

No malice. No drama. Just a simple assumption compounded by confidence. The other tourists, engrossed in their own conversations and memories of the day, had failed to notice the absence of someone who had been part of their collective adventure. She felt the sting of her invisibility amplify in the silence that followed as the bus rolled onward, carrying with it the weight of the unrecognized and the unseen.

When Assumptions Turn Into Action

In Iceland, the response to missing persons is swift due to the harsh terrain and rapidly changing weather. A full search was organized by the police, with volunteers and a helicopter involved. The situation took a turn when the missing woman unexpectedly joined the search party, walking and listening to help find herself.

In the midst of a search operation, a person realizes that their own description matches that of a missing individual. They notify the authorities, leading to the search being called off, with no harm done and no blame assigned, creating a poignant moment of clarity.

Why This Story Keeps Coming Back

The content discusses a recurring story that, while seemingly absurd and funny, reveals uncomfortable truths about how quickly people accept official narratives and act on urgent stories without questioning their accuracy. It emphasizes that all parties involved believed they were acting in good faith, which adds to the unsettling nature of the situation.

Mistaken Identity Is Not Just a Travel Problem

The narrative discusses a travel experience in Iceland that uncovers deeper themes of misidentification and misunderstanding. It highlights how individuals can be wrongly labeled and confined to roles not of their choosing, whether by strangers, groups, or even themselves. The focus is on a woman who, despite not being lost, was perceived inaccurately due to a flawed description, raising the issue of questioning assumptions.

The Quiet Lesson No One Mentions

The key aspect of the story is that the individual closest to the truth was initially unaware of her situation within the system. She had faith in the group, the process, and assumed the missing person was someone else. It wasn’t until she took a moment to listen that everything changed, leading to the conclusion of the operation.

Why This Matters More Than You Think

This narrative emphasizes the themes of self-awareness and the outsourcing of identity. It highlights how individuals often accept an imposed reality due to authority or consensus, and suggests that clarity can emerge from simply paying attention. The story centers on a woman who, despite being perceived as missing, only needed a moment to recognize her true self within the narrative constructed around her.

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Keywords

Iceland search party story, mistaken identity real story, Eldgja Canyon incident, woman joined her own search, travel miscommunication, human assumptions

Hashtags

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But miscommunication with your customers? That’s even more costly....
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#Miscommunication #topmessage #CustomerService

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#miscommunication #art #school

A quotation from Talleyrand

Speech was given to man to conceal his thoughts.
 
[La parole a été donné à l’homme pour déguiser sa pensée.]

Charles-Maurice de Talleyrand-Périgord (1754-1838) French secularized clergyman, statesman, wit, diplomat
(Attributed)

More info about this quote: wist.info/talleyrand/79291/

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #talleyrand #communication #concealment #dissembling #doublespeak #equivocation #language #lying #miscommunication #obfuscation #speech #thought

🚀 Breaking News: #Microsoft shows #favoritism, because why not? 🎩 Meanwhile, #The Verge's website has achieved new heights of #miscommunication by preventing you from reading the article entirely! 🏆 #Internet security: 1, #User experience: 0.
https://www.theverge.com/report/778641/microsoft-visual-studio-code-anthropic-claude-4 #Verge #security #experience #HackerNews #ngated
Microsoft favors Anthropic over OpenAI for Visual Studio Code

Microsoft is favoring Anthropic’s AI models over OpenAI for Visual Studio Code. It’s also recommending that Microsoft’s developers to use Claude 4.

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A quotation from Bill Watterson

CALVIN: I used to hate writing assignments, but now I enjoy them. I realized that the purpose of writing is to inflate weak ideas, obscure poor reasoning, and inhibit clarity. With a little practice, writing can be an intimidating and impenetrable fog!

Bill Watterson (b. 1958) American cartoonist
Calvin and Hobbes (1993-02-11)

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/watterson-bill/4095/

#quote #quotes #quotation #academia #academics #clarity #jargon #logorrhea #obscurity #school #writing #thesis #assignment #termpaper #wordiness #miscommunication

Calvin and Hobbes (1993-02-11) - Watterson, Bill | WIST Quotations

CALVIN: I used to hate writing assignments, but now I enjoy them. I realized that the purpose of writing is to inflate weak ideas, obscure poor reasoning, and inhibit clarity. With a little practice, writing can be an intimidating and impenetrable fog!

WIST Quotations
How to avoid #miscommunication
1. Think before you speak
2. Get the other person's attention
3. Check your assumptions
4. Be courteous
5. Check for understanding
6. Follow up
7. Understand body language
8. Listen closely
9. Avoid interrupting
10. Ask questions
11. Send emails
12. Use fewer words
13. Focus on one topic
14. Get to the point
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