Metamours can be stressful, and that's okay.
 
You are not obliged to have a relationship with your #metamours if you find it difficult. 

Your only obligation, as a team, is to find a way for your #polycule to work in a way that makes everyone happy. 

It's a simple fact of life that we will never get on with everyone, even if they are a perfect match for our partner. There are just some people whose personalities don't gel with ours. 

#polyamory

This morning the partner Slow Lori has her children with came by to pick up the younger one. So we got to talk a bit and hug twice while waiting for the child to be ready.
I enjoy getting glimses of how Slow Lori is with her other partners and as a co-parent 💖
I share my love for dogs with this partner while apparently Slow Loris long distance partner and I share an interest in birds 🐦🦢

This evening I arrived back home to Lion and our doggo.
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#Coparenting

Has arrived home from a few lovely days with Slow Lori 🥰
She has how ever caught a cold so I expect to get it too as not kissing was not an option 😜

A fun thing about my train home is that one of Slow Loris other partners and their son was on the same train. They where going to my city to visit some family 🚂 We did not see each other as we where in different ends of the train.
I have actually been interacting a lot with their son during this visit. Sitting in the car listening to them planning the details needed before this trip and brushing our teeth at the same time for example 🙃 So it feels like I am not a scary person for one of the children at least 😊
#PolyamourousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#Traintravel
#Family

"Basically, a #polycule is the intra-relationship network in which #polyamorous partners relate and function to one another (and to each other’s partners, aka #metamours). Just like molecules, polycules can range in size and complexity. “Some people choose to use ‘network,’ but the core idea is that when people are in more than one meaningful relationship, the whole group is connected the way each atom in a molecule is connected,”

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sexopedia/a37776699/polycule/

I recommend a book called dealing with difficult metamours by page turner

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