Mastodawn

我剛剛看到一個說一個日本男人因為生氣妻子專注於照料孩子而疏忽了他，因此超過20年沒有和妻子說過一句話的圖片（直到子女找到電視台，然後和妻子溝通，由妻子發出請求去最初約會的公園談談，才撬開了這尊佛的金口）。看起來不像是假消息，於是我搜了早期的視頻。

這是2013年4月5日一個叫做探偵ナイトスクープ的電視節目的內容，原來的標題叫：23年間も会話がなかった夫婦が。

我看到圖片的第一反應是：天啊這是世界上最恐怖的冷暴力！而這個妻子居然這23年裡依然和他住在一起，沒有想過離婚？！而且在這期間他們生下了第三個孩子！！！（她是怎麼接受這個冷酷的男人的性需求的？！）

當視頻裡面，這個妻子哭出來的那一瞬間，我覺得她真的好可憐，好可憐。而日本媒體都是報導「好感動」。我簡直想要大罵這男的怎麼不去死啊！（我很不想說媽寶，因為媽寶裡面的「媽」也是被社會塑造的）。

早期的視頻：https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=655594811311295

早期的媒體報導 https://www.j-cast.com/2013/05/10174862.html?p=all

一個比較詳細的紀錄 https://nangadekkyonna.com/archives/2394

#Domesticviolence #Mentalabuse #couple

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Bob Jamieson Apr 19, 2025

@RickiTarr Glad to hear that they are no longer together. From what you wrote he was not just a narcissist but an abuser. Abusive partners break down their partners emotionally and mentally in order to control them. Sometimes it can end in rape or even murder.
If you want to depress yourself look for youtube videos by Lundy Bancroft a psychiatrist who works with abusive men trying to understand and help them.
#DomesticAbuse #MentalAbuse

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Betterifyouneil Sep 29, 2024

Raymond was convicted as well of placing his hand over the mouth of a four-year-old student until the child went limp.

Witnesses reported the punishment prevented the child from breathing “to the point of him going limp.” Afterward, the boy was “unable to stand.”
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That's #Asphyxiation #Suffocation #AttemptedMurder #ChildAbuse #MentalAbuse #EmotionalAbuse

What the fuck #Motherfucker
No penalty will equal the crime.
#Justice

MauraAlwyen 🐘Mar 21, 2024

Some evenings dealing with my brain & the trauma bond sucks. The future fakes sometimes replay making it tough
I have to remember that litterally everything she said was a lie. All of it manipulation, all for her ego
2 months of strict no contact now & this can take years to fix
#narcsurvivor #nacasist #mentalabuse

MauraAlwyen 🐘Jan 16, 2024

Sometimes, I stumble across a video that makes me realize that due to my childhood trauma I will be alone against my desires
2 long term relationships, my kids are "mom, you have a type"
I can see what they mean
I can't change the past, only the future
I have to protect me now
#survival #narcassisticabuse #partnerabuse #MentalAbuse

Jana Hines Jan 15, 2024

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#ptsdrecovery #traumahealing #selflove #traumasurvivor #generationaltrauma #resilience #knowyourworth #healingfromtrauma #healingtrauma #abusesurvivor #childhoodtrauma #depression #triggers #lightinthedarkness #inmyfeelingschallenge #motivation #manifest #traumarecovery #healingjourney #mentalhealthmatters #therapy #love #mentalabuse #anxiety #counseling #askforhelp #yourjourneystartshere #emotionaltraumarecovery #spiritualcleansing #mentalhealthisreal

Amanda Mitchell Sep 22, 2023

It hurts when you have to realize and accept that the loving and caring family you thought you grew up with turns out to be narcissistic, bullying, assholes who used you repeatedly, mentally abused and neglected you.
Living with #cptsd sucks.
#mentalabuse #cptsd #healing

Velux ΘΔ Aug 14, 2023

It’s been weighing on me how I’ve finally had a glimpse of just how deep the damage goes from my parents. They made it impossible for me to love or even be ok with myself. They made it impossible for me to know who I am beyond one or two facets.

I thought I’d begun to mourn for myself and move past it, but it’s more clear to me than ever that without help overcoming this, I will never be happy, satisfied, or even know who I really am.

Meanwhile the lack of cons and the weather keeping me from the nature preserve is making me long for connection with my kin side more than ever, which also pulls me down and saps my energy, adding yet another obstacle to getting there.

It’s a feedback loop I need to break out of or I fear I may begin to truly suffocate and send me to depths unknown…

#MentalAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #Identity #Parents #Otherkin #Gryphonkin #EverythingIsWrong #SomebodyHelpMe