Solomon Buchi says wife must come before every other person
Key Points
- Solomon Buchi reacts to a female artist’s marital post. He insists a wife ranks above parents and friends.
- He says marriage forms its own protected circle for spouses. Men should not let relatives run their homes.
- Buchi adds prioritising wives makes parenting and support easier. He urges couples to discuss loyalty lines before marriage.
Nigerian life coach Solomon Buchi has restated that a man’s wife comes first. He said marriage demands the highest human loyalty after God.
Image credit: Solomon Buchi / Instagram
Buchi made the point while reacting to a post by a female artist. The artist argued that a husband must shield his wife from outside pulls. His view aligns with Noble Igwe prioritises wife published earlier today.
Buchi backs female artist’s stance
According to Buchi, a spouse outranks parents, siblings, mentors and friends. He warned men not to let relatives decide what happens in their homes. He said putting the wife last weakens trust and respect.
He further explained that marriage is a covenant that should form its own circle. Within that circle, the wife must feel fully chosen and secure. He said couples should protect that circle from needless pressure.
He admitted that many men feel torn between mothers and wives. According to him, clarity before marriage makes future choices easier. He urged engaged couples to speak about loyalty lines early.
Why spousal priority matters
Buchi noted that many African homes still rate mothers above wives. He said such ranking causes secret pain for married women. He urged mothers to release their sons after marriage.
The life coach added that choosing a wife first is not dishonour. Rather, it helps the man serve his extended family better. The view aligns with The Nze on marriage tests shared this month.
He also appealed to wives to honour their husbands’ core relatives. In his words, priority is not the same as rejection. Creating peace between both sides keeps the home strong.
Supporters praised him for defending modern marriage roles. Some critics said every home can set its own order. Buchi replied that order works best when it is shared.
He clarified that even children should not compete with the spouse. Parents, he said, raise better children from united homes. He called spousal unity the root of stable parenting.
Buchi has built a large audience from posts on love and faith. His latest remark joined other voices urging men to protect marriage. The debate is still active across Instagram and X.
He promised to keep sharing balanced content on marriage online. He urged followers to read posts fully before reacting. He thanked the unnamed artist for starting the talk. He said conversations heal silent hurts in many homes.
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