Will we ever get this sorted?, he asked, almost crying. It's such a mess. We aren't really equipped to do this, are we?

Oh, no, we never will sort it, she said, smiling. And we are really, really bad at it.

No one ever succeeds. Stop fussing. Here, have one of my Rotis, fresh from the pan.

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Embracing Imperfections: The Raw Truth About Progress and Being Human

Embracing imperfections is the key to unlocking your strength—stop chasing perfection and start finding power in your flaws.

Let’s get one thing straight: you’re not perfect, and neither am I. No one walking this planet is flawless, yet many of us spend our lives trying to act like we are—or worse, pretending we can be. It’s exhausting, fake, and, most importantly, it’s not the point of life. The truth? Life is messy, full of screw-ups and second chances. And that’s exactly where growth happens. That’s where resilience is born.

I live by PRIDE—Purpose, Resilience, Integrity, Discipline, and Empowerment. It’s not a trendy acronym or some fluffy self-help mantra. It’s a framework I’ve built out of blood, sweat, and failures. It’s my compass, my guide through the chaos of life. But let me be brutally honest: living by PRIDE doesn’t mean I have my shit together every second of every day. It doesn’t mean I never fall flat on my face or make decisions that make me cringe later. It means I embrace those imperfections and use them as fuel to keep moving forward.

Purpose isn’t about perfection. It’s about having a reason to get up every day, even when you’re staring at your own shortcomings in the mirror. Purpose doesn’t care if you stumbled yesterday or if you’ve fallen a hundred times before. Purpose is that relentless whisper in your soul that says, “Get up. Keep going.”

And you know what? You will stumble. A lot. That’s where resilience comes in. Resilience isn’t about being untouchable. It’s not about never failing. It’s about looking failure dead in the eye, giving it the middle finger, and saying, “You’re not stopping me.” Every mistake, every misstep, is an opportunity to come back stronger. But only if you stop wasting time beating yourself up and start focusing on the comeback.

Integrity might be the toughest of them all. It’s about being honest—not just with others but with yourself. And here’s the hard truth: being honest with yourself can hurt. It means admitting when you’ve screwed up, owning your choices, and refusing to hide behind excuses. But integrity is also what frees you. When you stop pretending to be perfect, you start owning your imperfections, and suddenly, you’re in control of your life again.

Here’s the kicker: discipline doesn’t mean perfection, either. Let’s get real—discipline is gritty. It’s showing up when you don’t want to. It’s putting in the work when you’re tired, distracted, or doubting yourself. Discipline doesn’t mean you’ll never slip up. It means you don’t let those slips turn into slides. You catch yourself, you adjust, and you keep going. That’s how progress happens, not in a straight line, but in the messy zigzag of effort and recovery.

Empowerment ties it all together. It’s about recognizing your power—not in some mythical, superhero way, but in the raw, human way. You have power in every choice you make. Even when you’ve made the wrong one, you have the power to make the next one right. Empowerment isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about showing up, flaws and all, and taking action anyway.

Here’s the truth no one likes to talk about: perfection is a lie. It’s a toxic illusion that keeps you stuck. It makes you think you have to have it all figured out before you can start or that one mistake means you’ve failed. But progress? Progress doesn’t give a damn about perfection. Progress is about showing up, doing the work, and learning from every stumble along the way.

That’s why embracing imperfections isn’t just important—it’s essential. Your imperfections are where your strength comes from. They’re proof that you’re trying, that you’re human, that you’re alive. When you stop running from them, when you stop hiding them, that’s when you start to grow.

So, let me ask you this: what would happen if you stopped chasing perfection and started chasing progress instead? What would happen if you stopped seeing your imperfections as failures and started seeing them as opportunities? I’ll tell you what would happen—you’d start to live. Really live. And you’d discover that the version of you who keeps getting back up, who keeps trying, is a hell of a lot stronger than the version of you pretending to be perfect.

PRIDE isn’t about being flawless. It’s about honesty, resilience, and discipline to keep moving forward. It’s about empowering yourself to own your messy, imperfect, and beautiful story. And it’s about living with purpose, not because you’ve mastered life, but because you refuse to let life beat you.

Every day, I make choices. Some are good, some… not so much. I might eat something that doesn’t align with my health goals. I might lose my temper or make a decision I regret. But I don’t let those moments define me. I don’t let them derail me. I own them, learn from them, and move on. That’s what embracing imperfections is all about. It’s not about giving yourself a free pass to stay stuck. It’s about using your flaws as stepping stones to something better.

If you take one thing away from this, let it be this: you don’t need to be perfect to live with purpose. You just need the courage to show up, the resilience to bounce back, and the discipline to keep trying. Progress is messy, but it’s worth it. And so are you.

Now, stop chasing perfection. Start chasing progress. Embrace your imperfections and let them fuel your growth. Life isn’t about having it all figured out—it’s about figuring it out as you go. Keep moving forward, one imperfect step at a time. That’s how you win. That’s how you grow. That’s how you live.

Stay disciplined. Stay resilient.

Jim Lunsford

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