Perhaps your problem is that you are hardwired into believing that heterosexuality comes with the right of the other gender to tell you what to do.
just like the old mating rituals of the human and animal world.
I assess you, you impress me, I give you what you want...
seriously thats the base of this heteronomity.
Are we really still like that?
Do we have to???
i don't want to believe it.
Someone who has made up their personality

#heterosexuality #heteronomity

"A group of #Orthodox #rabbis from the #US and #Israel issued a strongly worded letter condemning discredited practices that try to “convert” #LGBTQ+ people to #heterosexuality — a rarity for an establishment that still largely sees #queer people as sinful.

The letter, which was drafted years ago but released earlier in January in Israel, includes the signatures of prominent #modernOrthodox rabbis, including Yitz Greenberg, Shmuly Yanklowitz and Daniel Sperber, as well as a number of female rabbis.

[...]

“We the undersigned,” it begins, “believe that it is forbidden according to #Halakhic principle and ethos, for anyone, including a #rabbi, #rabbanit, educator, or therapist to recommend to any person to undergo treatment for the purpose of changing a person’s #sexualorientation, commonly known as ‘#conversiontherapy. This is because conversion therapy is harmful, does not work, and because same-sex attraction is not a mental health problem.”

https://religionnews.com/2026/01/28/in-new-letter-modern-orthodox-rabbis-say-conversion-therapy-is-forbidden/

Modern Orthodox rabbis: Jewish law forbids 'conversion therapy'

(RNS) —  About 100 Orthodox rabbis from the U.S. and Israel say the practice is harmful and doesn't work.

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The persistence of heteronormativity is not only due to the weight of social conventions and norms, but also to material conditions of existence: being in a couple means having more resources. Sophie Lewis asserts that the conditions of heterosexuality are inseparable from economic realities: ‘Most women are too overworked, too exhausted by the demands of capitalism and its culture of compulsory enjoyment to even have the opportunity to learn to love.’

Sophie Lewis wrote ‘Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation’

#relationships #domesticWork #sociology #heteroNormativity #materialistFeminism #feminism #love #subjugation #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #patriarchy #subalternStudies #family

“I simply do not see why the nation has to have an official sexuality, especially one that authorizes the norm of a violent gentility; that narrows the field of legitimate political action; that supports the amputation of personal complexity into categories of simple identity; that uses cruel and mundane strategies both to promote shame for non-normative populations and to deny them state, federal, and juridical supports because they are deemed morally incompetent to their own citizenship. This is the heterosexuality I repudiate.”

― Lauren Berlant, in "The Queen of America Goes to Washington City: Essays on Sex and Citizenship"

#heteroNormativity #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #queer #Berlant #LaurenBerlant #literature #fluidity #patriarchy #subalternStudies

Heterosexuality is a regime of political oppression 🧶

"Just as racism produces race and not the other way round, sexism produces sex through the relationship of domination that reduces the dominated to things or natural objects."
… said Natacha Chetcuti-Osorovitz summarizing Monique Wittig

#materialism #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #EstelleSays #materialistFeminism #naturalism #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #saphism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #history #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #linguistics #writing #minorityStudies #universalism #queer #constructivism #antagonism #culturalHistory #lesbians

#LGBTQ English #Wikipedia deletion alert

Could you save this LGBTQ related #English Wikipedia article from deletion?

Hetero Awesome Fest
* 2025 straight pride event in Boise, Idaho, U.S.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hetero_Awesome_Fest
Discussion: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Articles_for_deletion/Hetero_Awesome_Fest

#Culture #Festivals #Heterosexuality

Hetero Awesome Fest - Wikipedia

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*Note: this fanfiction is written by L M Stephens, previously published on AO3 under the name Diseased Fanfics.

#art #artwork #bookcoverdesign #digitalart #writing #writer #literature #book #fanfiction #comics #lgbtq #bisexuality #bi #straight #heterosexuality #gay #homosexuality #fiction #writingcommunity #mcu #thor #loki #marvelcinematicuniverse #marvel

Having explored the Virtuous #Paedophiles forum’s culture of support, advice, and negotiations, we find that the stigmatised #paedophile character limits both the understanding of being a paedophile and the ability to remain virtuous.
Source (paywall): https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2023-03734-008

It doen't solve #sexualchildabuse fully, as most child abusers are hetero: https://zeroabuseproject.org/victim-assistance/jwrc/keep-kids-safe/sexuality-of-offenders/

#hetero #pedo #heterosexual #childabuse #Heterosexuality #maps #factsmatter

Blue Lit | Enter the Blue Literature

Welcome to Blue Lit writing by L M Stephens and Beverly L Anderson. Please be advised that there may be some intense subject matter in the writing that you may find distasteful.

Enter the Blue Literature

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPgwSbMM-0I
Perry Farrel! 
"That's the way we love the #future
we want #homosexuality, #heterosexuality, #bissexuality, we gotta #mix it up!! That's why we all love each other. You all pures you'll die out anyway. You are outnumbered, cause we all here, and we ain't going anywhere....! Right on!" 

lyrics of the song:
"Will there be another race
To come along and take over for us?
Maybe martians could do better than we've done
We'll make great pets!"

Porno For Pyros - Pets / Dominator - 8/14/1994 - Woodstock 94

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