The dating app A4A Radar (Adam4Adam) IMO wrongfully suspends my account. Before that, they IMO wrongfully accused me of being spammer, censored all my messaging and then stopped censoring me again before IMO wrongfully suspending me altogether.

IMO The app is bullying me by groundlessly and abusively suspending my account, without me violating any conditions, which ruins my romantic and dating life and causes toxic loneliness which, according to research, has as bad health effect as smoking 18 cigarettes a day. I was communicating respectfully and didn’t send any sexual pictures. Before, the app IMO bullied and harrassed me by wrongful blocking and accusations: I don’t spam and just write introductory messages about my interests (nothing sexual, no sexual pictures) and suddenly a red banner appears at the top of the screen falsely accusing me “Error: you are marked a spammer” and messages stop working, I can’t even read incoming messages (censorship) or communicate with other people. The app is IMO hypocritical because it’s the app which is IMO spamming with adverts, not me.

Also:

"I’ve Been Banned From Almost Every Dating App" -- https://www.vice.com/en/article/banned-from-dating-apps/

"The hidden consequences of being banned from dating apps Thousands say they've been permanently banned from dating apps — and it's affecting their love lives." -- https://mashable.com/article/what-happens-when-youre-banned-from-dating-apps

I feel

e x t r e m e l y s t r o n g c o n t e m p t

towards the vendor of the A4A Adam (Adam4Adam) dating app which used to be one of the few usable ones.

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I’ve Been Banned From Almost Every Dating App

It was probably “weaponized reporting” from a scorned date, and it's almost impossible to fix.

VICE