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This is your gentle reminder to get your cuddles in

or to leave that person, if you’re in a bad relationship.

If love is truly medicine, not love is truly poison.

I’ve witnessed the light go out in someone’s eyes, full teeth-exposed smiles disappear from their face, and protective weight added to their naturally lean body

while in relationship with someone they’re likely meant to learn with, not stay with.

I’ve also been that person..

Yes, all relationships have challenges. All relationships have good times and not so good times.

But if the one you’re in relationship with causes you to shrink yourself, dim your light, or somehow be less then it’s worth taking the time to examine that.

Honor the lessons. Honor yourself. Then take action.

Had I known in past relationships that I would eventually meet Husband and create a life together, I think I would have ended relationships that I knew needed to end much faster.

And/or I wouldn’t have spent so much time grieving when they did end..

Still, I’m grateful for every second of my challenging past because it makes me even more grateful for who and what I have now.

Especially the cuddles before bed, when I wake up, and the ones sprinkled throughout my day just because ♥️✨

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Today’s #GentleReminder 💕

The last full moon in Scorpio really kicked my butt, how about you ? 🫠

In my 7th house (the house of marriage, relationships, partnerships, and contracts), I felt the squeeze.

I felt the death, the burial, the calling, and the return in my most valued relationship and needless to say it was fckn HARD.

As someone born under a Scorpio Moon, death and rebirth have always brought me a sense of coming home— the shedding of skin to reveal the newer, brighter me is something I often look forward to.

I forgot that the process of transition isn’t always pleasant nor easy.. this full moon QUICKLY reminded me of that 🫨😵‍💫🫥

BUT I made it through. And if you’re reading this, you did too you tender, resilient, little cutie patootie 💕

And that’s something to celebrate 💖

Today’s #GentleReminder 👣🌄✨

Call your “strong” friend. Text and check in with that friend who “always seems to have it together.” Reach out to that person in your life who’s endlessly there for you and rarely, if ever, asks for anything in return.

We all need support. We all need to know others think about and care about us 🥲

#GentleReminder

Today’s #GentleReminder 💖

Are you forcing or flowing ? 🤔

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