If we say we’re thinking of leaving the country, we’re afraid you’ll think we’re overreacting. If we tell you how bad things are getting, we worry we’ll sound crazy.

GENDER DEFIANT in The New Yorker: A MOTHER AND HER TRANS TEEN DECIDE TO LEAVE THE U.S. https://gender-defiant.ghost.io/gender-defiant-in-the-new-yorker/

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Gender Defiant in the New Yorker

JJ and I moved to Mexico. Visual storyteller Sam Wolson made a piece about it. It’s an American story everyone should see.

GENDER DEFIANT

I just finished Gender Euphoria, a collection of essays by 15 trans, nonbinary, and intersex people about the bliss they feel in transition.

It was the vacation I didn’t know I needed.

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They used the simplest terms. The terms of a three year old. Orla said, “I’m not a boy or a girl.”

I thought they were saying, “I’m both/and.” Which is to say, I’m like you.

But I was wrong.

https://gender-defiant.ghost.io/the-limits-of-my-queerness/

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The Limits of my Queerness

I knew binary gender was a myth when I was 15. You’d think l would understand my young child’s transness. But I have so much to learn

GENDER DEFIANT