Dudes on gay apps specifying that they're only looking for friends need to get real.

If you say you're *only* looking for friends, & someone says hello (with intro) based on that - then you check them out and don't bother saying hello in return?

You're not *only* looking for friends.

You're looking for people who fit your locked fantasy of *what you want friends to look like.*

It's no different than needing a specific look for a hookup.

Stop.

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