In the end I ditched the #GNOME DE and GDM with #wayland in favor of #MATE and #emptty with #xorg #X11. Right now I don't have problems at all.

Turns out mate is a really good DE, I underestimated it all this time.

@linuxiac That's funny because I just switched from SDDM to #emptty https://github.com/tvrzna/emptty which is rather pleasantly plain.
GitHub - tvrzna/emptty: Dead simple CLI Display Manager on TTY

Dead simple CLI Display Manager on TTY. Contribute to tvrzna/emptty development by creating an account on GitHub.

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#Emptty #DisplayManager / #LoginManager #performance has been #benchmarked https://youtu.be/vnhqUJxvuf0. It appears to be a better performer than #SDDM with it's #terminal based user interface. Curious if anyone daily drives Emptty. :)
Emptty 12 Display Manager Benchmarked on Alpine Linux 3.20 - Better than SDDM

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Any #DisplayManager recommendations? Trying to move away from #SDDM. #Emptty is neat.
#dwm and #emptty now benchmarked on https://everybytecounts.org There are so many options for a #WindowManagers with #DisplayManager on #AlpineLinux with better performance than on bare #NixOS #Linux without a #WindowManager, at a fraction of the disk usage. Also, the next release of Alpine, in November, will have more #DesktopEnvironment / window manager options. Some of which are currently on the edge branch, or had become out of date and will have new versions.
Desktop Operating System Performance Comparison

Comparative analysis of desktop environments, window managers, and display managers across different operating systems. Quantitative metrics to help make informed decisions when choosing a desktop environment.

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