Great article about the kinds of mental load involved, for women, in domestic labour.

Sadly, this is old news.

Twenty years ago I completed a PhD thesis that unpacked & examined these aspects of domestic life.

By interviewing parents & kids separately, asking the same open ended questions - ‘what gets done, who does what, is it fair, & how do you think it should be?’, which I ran through 3 times, first for domestic tasks, then for the work of identifying what needs to be done & making sure it happens, then for noticing how everyone is feeling & keeping every happy in the process - then taking the family as my unit of analysis, I showed that men & kids were unaware of much of the physical & almost all of the intangible work women did in their homes. Boys & men thought everything was fine. Girls did not want to assume, as adults, the domestic servant role they saw their mothers placed in but had no strategies to achieve this beyond ‘I’ll just tell them’.

There was a hierarchy of work in these families in which men’s work & leisure time had highest priority, then kids’ schooling & leisure, then domestic work of all kinds. Womens paid work & leisure was lowest priority of all.

The families that lived without conflict were those in which the hierarchy of work was not disputed. Where women sought to disrupt the hierarchy there was conflict - which became another part of the domestic load she was expected to manage.

My findings showed that contrary to popular narratives of ‘progress’, this dynamic was not likely to change until men as well as women recognise the dynamic & choose to shift it.

This argument was not popular.

Twenty years later, here we are.

I wish I had been wrong.

#DomesticLabour #EmotionWork #MentalLoad #sociology #research #women #mothers

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-03-02/the-four-stages-of-the-mental-load-explained/106348264?utm_source=abc_news_app&utm_medium=content_shared&utm_campaign=abc_news_app&utm_content=other

Women carry bulk of the mental load, but men are active in one stage

While research has found mothers do more in all four stages of cognitive labour, there was one stage where men were more active than others.

O programa do encontro "Nós Estamos Contigo na Casa: Trabalho doméstico e acção coletiva — Arquivos, memórias, testemunhos" já se encontra disponível no nosso site.

Vai decorrer na FCSH e no Centro Cultural Cabo Verde.

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Digesting Food Studies (the CFS podcast)—Episode 110: Feminist Food Studies

Feminist studies and food studies have a fascinating history of difference, alignment, and emergence. This episode covers some of that span, from a laborious recipe for baked rice pudding (without eggs…!) to a themed issue of Canadian Food Studies (Vol. 5 No. 1) that is dedicated to feminist food studies (https://doi.org/10.15353/cfs-rcea.v5i1). Lots of voices this week, including Jennifer Brady, Barbara Parker, Elaine Power, Liz Lovell, Steph Chartrand, and of course the inimitable Alexia Moyer.

https://rss.com/podcasts/digesting-food-studies/2173092/

#DigestingFoodStudies
#Feminism
#FeministStudies
#FoodSystems
#Gender
#Power
#SocialClass
#Racialization
#DomesticLabour
#Recipes
#HomeEconomics
#FoodWaste
#InfantFormula
#WomensWork
#FoodPodcast

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Digesting Food Studies (the CFS podcast)—Episode 103: Food Art & Material Practice

What can we learn about #foodsystems from making #art and getting our hands on the #materiality of food? Oh so very much!

https://rss.com/podcasts/digesting-food-studies/2172998/

Writer, artist, and psychotherapist Susan Goldberg discusses her artwork, poem, and reflection piece, “Milk and Bread” (Vol. 12 No. 1 of Canadian Food Studies), and recent master’s graduate Caylie Warkentin weighs in with a perspective on material practice more generally. We touch on the Holotypic Occlupanid Research Group (horg.com), which documents and categorizes bread bag ties—in all seriousness AND silliness. And, as Alexia Moyer shares, there are some fascinating parallels between #gender and #cutlery to be explored. Sink your tines into that!

#DigestingFoodStudies
#FoodArt
#FoundArt
#FoodSystems
#Materiality
#Milk
#Bread
#BreadBagTies
#DomesticLabour
#Poetry
#HouseholdManagement
#Cutlery
#Tableware
#Gender
#WomensWork
#covid
#FoodPodcast

image: Susan Goldberg

'We are with you at home'
This meeting seeks to encourage the participation and sharing of ideas among activists, artists, researchers, workers and trade unions — calling on the voice of workers and the power of archives as a living tool for knowledge, learning and transformation.

Send your proposal by 10 November.

https://ihc.fcsh.unl.pt/en/events/with-you-at-home/

#Histodons #DomesticLabour #LabourHistory #DomesticWork #LaborHistory #CFP

We are with you at home. Domestic work and collective action | IHC

To encourage the participation and sharing of ideas calling on the voice of workers and the power of archives as a living tool for knowledge.

Instituto de História Contemporânea

🗣 Está aberta a chamada para trabalhos do encontro "Nós Estamos Contigo na Casa. Trabalho doméstico e acção coletiva — Arquivos, memórias, testemunhos", que procura estimular a partilha, convocando a voz das trabalhadoras e a força do arquivo como uma ferramenta viva de conhecimento, aprendizagem e transformação.

A organização é do IHC e do CICS.NOVA e terá lugar em Lisboa a 6 e 7 de Fevereiro de 2026.

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"I put laundry in the machine, forget about it — wet, unspun — and find it dried and folded in the basket. The dishwasher gets unloaded before I even notice it is on. Sometimes one of us has a hard day and disappears while the other two pick up the slack. Sometimes two of us are down and there’s still one left to make beans on toast for dinner. These are not spectacular acts, but they are the glue."

A personal essay by @kristiedegaris: https://archive.ph/AgiTR#selection-1953.113-1953.513

#parenting #cohabiting #domesticLabour #houseWork #unpaid #care #Scotland #feminism #family #home #logistics #ADHD

Capitalism also depends on domestic labour

A feminist silkscreen poster collective founded in London in 1974 by three former art students, the See Red Women’s Workshop grew out of a shared desire to combat sexist images of women and to create positive and challenging alternatives. Women from different backgrounds came together to make poste…

People’s Graphic Design Archive
Clocking Out of the Second Shift

The official statistics show that gender gaps in the division of household labor have closed significantly over time. Why are so many women still so frustrated?