This is a poem I wrote today I got inspired to write poetry again after I watched the series Ginny and Georgia #poetry #poem #queerpoetry #queer #disabledqueer

My friend sent a text, and he...is...cross as fuck!๐Ÿ˜ก

Let me tell able-bodied people what a #disabledqueer    friend of mine told me, after his last shopping trip.

#DisabledPeople are capable of thinking and doing for themselves. If they need our help, they will ask for it.

It is ableist to assume that anyone walking with a cane and wearing a mask is elderly, (when, in this case, this man is 29 years old and disabled after a #gaybashing).

Whether someone is elderly or a young disabled person or an elderly disabled person, don't create a narrative about who and what they are.

Do not assume they are 'feeble'.

Don't speak in a condescending tone. They are not children!

How DARE anyone wince at the sight of a physically disabled person.

The interpersonal dynamics of getting one of those "always glad to help, call me anytime" friends to actually show up and help with a task at a specific time has once again proven almost more than this disabled autistic queerdo can handle. The TL;DR: task got done, but not before a text, 2 phone calls, and an almost-meltdown. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

#disabled #DisabledQueer #ActuallyAutistic

#DisabilityPrideMonth history lesson! ๐Ÿ“š โ™ฟ

Did you know the 504 Sit-In for #disabilityrights took place outside ERA's former San Francisco office โ“โ“

Led by Judy Heumann, Kitty Cone & strongly supported by the Black Panthers, the sit-in spread nationally & helped change federal law.

#AccessIsLove #DisabilityInclusion #DisabilityAdvocate #DisabilityAwareness #DisabilityIsNotInability #DisabilityJustice #DisabledQueer #DisabledLGBT #DisabilityHistory #DisabilityPride #DisabilityCommunity

Here is the speech we gave at Pride of the Dรฉise highlighting the need for the LGBTQAI+ community to ensure they aim for accessibility and the inclusion of disabled members.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/do-force-our-queer-identity-erase-neurodivergent-voices

#NeuroPride #Neuroqueer #disabledqueer #Neurodivergent #Pride

Do not force our queer identity to erase our Neurodivergent voices

We want to take this quick moment to acknowledge that Neuro Pride Ireland is not exclusively for LGBTQIAP+ Neurodivergent people. Neuro Pride Ireland is a space for all Neurodivergent adults** regardless of attraction or gender.

The struggle to get stuff done today continues, as my bod demonstrates it's not just feeling sluggish but actively cranky. Grudging thanks to the bod for reminding me once again this is Not All In My Head ... though I'm also clear that some existential dread blues are weighing on me today too.

#chronicpain #spoonie #SpoonieLife #QueerSpoonie #trans #transmasc #genderqueer #DisabledQueer

Watching my federal government continue to play chicken with looming default ... and among many other things, the lives of retirees and disabled people including myself.

I have willingly paid into Social Security my entire working life. Including double whenever I was working freelance. That's my damn money, and damn you for messing with it in my time of need.

#USPol #retirement #disabled #DisabledQueer

I've dabbled in drag and have long wanted to do more, and even figure out mobility workarounds, but time, energy, and COVID intervened - plus no concept was turning me on enough to surmount those obstacles. But now the idea of embodying that force of nature Ian Dury is really lighting my fire. Plus: current events make me want to attempt some more visible defiance of the transphobes.

#DragKing #drag #trans #transmasc #IanDury #genderqueer #DisabledQueer

I'm suddenly on a bit of a major Ian Dury trip, which has been very entertaining to say the least... but then this morning my brain was all suddenly telling me: "dude, here's the drag king role you've been looking for, you gimpy punk geezer you!" ... and now I can't stop giggling and planning outfits. I dunno if I'll ever take to a stage with this but damn is this idea giving me life right now ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—

#IanDury #DragKing #transmasc #genderqueer #DisabledQueer #trans

LOL as I keep glancing at/using my new pair of canes in different levels/types of light, I keep seeing their color as different shades, varying from periwinkle blue to a more purple-y lavender. Trust my brain to unerringly go for the genderfluid mobility aids - I love it!  

#GenderFluid #GenderQueer #DisabledQueer #QueerSpoonie #trans