No darling, you're not "too big for diapers." Nobody is.
Lay down on the table.
anyways following that, here's some silly weird kink rambling for fun x3
the idea of 'learned helplessness' in abdl scenarios is such a good and fun feeling... slipping into babyish thoughts and feelings and actions because you're taught you can't resist them. your caretaker gently telling you that they know you can't hold it until you can get to a potty, so you should just use your diapers. Taught to ask them for permission, go to them for help with things that they say are too difficult for you, even if you would be capable of them... but you've been told over and over you can't.
The first few times you fail at an 'adult' task, maybe it's by accident, or maybe it's set up by them for you to fail. But those few little failures become justifications for extra precautions. Those extra precautions become justifications for you to fail more. And as you fail more and more often, they trust you to handle adult responsibilities less and less. You trust yourself to handle them less and less.
If you can't make it to the potty on time, we'd better keep you in diapers. Being in diapers means they need to worry less about making sure you can make it next time. Failing to make it next time means you can't be trusted to make it at all. reminded over and over again of all the times you wet yourself each time you try to assert you can make it. Even if you succeed once or twice, it doesn't win back that trust. Eventually, you might as well just use your diapers, they know you can't hold it long enough. You know you can't hold it long enough.
If you can't handle potty training, clearly you're not gonna be able to handle other things. each little adult responsibility and privilege slowly taken away one by one as they convince you that you can't handle things like that. That you should leave that to the grown-ups in your life, and you're clearly not able to be one of those. Sure, you could probably stand up and walk, your muscles work just fine, you're not forced to crawl with any bondage or spiked booties or even any rules saying you can't.
But you stumbled and fell so many times... you know you can't really do it. You can't handle that on your own. You need your caretaker's hand holding yours, or need them to pick you up and carry you.
The only think keeping you a helpless little baby is yourself. And that's exactly how they trained you to be.~
Happy Paw Day!
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