I'll never understand men.
Some guy on Fetlife posted about a week ago, looking for someone to meet up for a NSA play date. He specified that he was looking for something "discreet".
I asked what he meant by discreet, and some other guy popped up in response and defined the word "discreet" for me.
I explained that I know what the word means, but some people use it to mean "I'm married and cheating", whereas others use it to mean "I'm an early childhood teacher in a small town and I don't want people knowing that I like being pegged".. and I'm wondering which way the OP is using it here.
Well, that comment has sat in the thread for weeks, and suddenly today the guy decided he had to respond by screaming at me because it's none of my business if the OP is married because I have no interest meeting people and I just want to chastise the OP for his choices.
I'm like... what..?
Like, not only have I met people from Fetlife in person before, it's something I have done a lot. I've also run munches and events in my area for 15+ years. I regularly have other organisers reach out to me to "vet" people before being allowed to go to their events too.
I was literally asking because I have room on my dance card for a play mate, but I don't help men cheat.
I don't even know this guy who was yelling about me (again, it wasn't the OP who was yelling).. he's been on my friends list for a while and has "loved" some of my pictures, but that doesn't mean anything because I add anyone who requests on Fetlife.
I've never actually interacted with him in DM or in threads.
Men are so weird.
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