At first I was all starry-eyed about how progressive Tomodachi life looked and shit, but now after a few days of playing it I have more nuanced opinions.
And when I say nuanced opinions, I mean I am pissed.
Even though the game gives the player the opportunity to create non-binary characters who are panromantic or even aromantic, the pronouns choices are still binary (except in english) and the game remains heteronormative.
For instance, polyamory is not an option. When a Mii has a crush on a second person, they ask the player to choose one. I tried setting up a love triangle but Miis can only crush on a single person at once!
Furthermore, a romantic relationship that grows seems to always evolve into marriage. Do I need to tell you how much I fucking hate marriage?
At first, when I saw the "non-binary" option at the Mii creator, I thought "at last! I am finally represented! I can't believe it!". But, no, actually I am not. If I can't love my lovers, I am not represented AT ALL.

